The best part of being in your 30s is caring less

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I no longer care about anything that doesn’t matter. I used to be blown away by how confident the women in my family were and as I age I get it. My grandma didn’t give a fuck and was the nicest lady in the world. I remember someone complimenting her shoes at the mall and she literally took them off and gave them to the lady who complimented her. I remember saying “but grandma now you’re just in your socks” and she was like “so?” That’s how I feel lately. I just want to be kind and make the world nicer for other people and I no longer care about being embarrassed or taking up space or being anything but comfortable and kind.

Comments

  1. Calm_Translator_1980 Avatar

    It truly is empowering.

    The best is when you realize how many people in your life become offended by the lack of care you have. You realize who actually cares for you.

  2. SunsetAndSilence Avatar

    Aw, that’s so cool! I love it. 😊

    I think your grandma could have taught my mother a thing or two. I imagine if there’s really a Heaven, my mother is there still grinding her teeth at everything that bugs her.