The bro code in the wrong hands is really toxic

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So I will say there are some damn good traits in the bro code. It can foster relationships, help men be there for each other. But it can also be toxic AF depending on who is quoting it, the whole bros before hoes. Mocking each other for being vulnerable or pushing each other to hid there feelings.

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  2. futureformerteacher Avatar

    See: Hockey Canada.

  3. TechEnthu____ Avatar

    Like what? Bros before hoes ( ignoring the cringe name) literally means not to let your girl take over your life and separate your friends. Happened to folks I know, they became co dependent and the breakup was ugly.
    It’s good for girl too yk, she doesn’t need to baby the guy

  4. rollercostarican Avatar

    >Mocking each other for being vulnerable or pushing each other to hid there feelings.

    I’ve never heard of this considered being apart of Bro code. But yes i agree, it can be toxic if used to just cover your tracks when cheating. But generally it’s just supposed to be supportive.

    “Bro’s before hoes,” i always took to mean as never put some random new girl you just met on some pedestal at the expense of your boys (friends in general) who’ve had your back for years.

  5. TraditionBubbly2721 Avatar

    The bro code is imaginary