The girl im into did this… 24M 22F
So this girl and I were figuring things out. We became close recently (late last year). We used to talk everyday and all that and things were going great but we had to put a hold on it because early this year she went on exchange to europe. To be clear we werent official or anything, we just were good friends
So here’s the thing. A few days ago I found out that during this time she has hooked up with at least 3 different guys. I dont see myself as the type of guy that thinks a woman has less value over her sexual past and also its not like she cheated on me but I cant help but to feel upset over this.
How can I deal with this?
Tl;dr: girl I like hooked up during europe exchange and im upset about it
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So just to confirm, you are upset about this person hooking up with at least 3 different people when you weren’t official correct?
I mean jealousy for a crush getting laid is fairly normal. either get laid yourself or ask her out. Under no circumstances tell her you feel wronged that she got laid tho lol
Just accept it. Accept your feelings that go along with it. They’ll just go away and fade over time.
Go out and meet women yourself, have a good time. Try not to spend quite as much time on social media or checking up on her. I mean you can still be friends and stuff after she gets back if you feel like it. Did she tell you she got laid by three dudes herself? Did you inquire about it?
In any case, it just is what it is. Easier said than done, I know.