Oh this is so small but it made me feel so warm. On Saturday night, he spent the night with me because all of my roommates were out of the house (we live separately). It would’ve just been me and one of my roommates’ cat.
I have an essential oil diffuser in my room, and part of my nighttime routine is filling it up and setting it to go off during the night. Call it pseudo science or whatever, but I sleep like a baby when that thing is going. On Saturday night, he filled it for me because he remembered that I use the diffuser from an earlier conversation we had two weeks ago. Touching, but not the part that made me cry. I didn’t see him on Sunday, and I didn’t use the diffuser Sunday night, as I was already deadbeat tired.
On Monday, he left for a business trip. Monday night, I go to fill the diffuser. It’s already full. He filled it up for me Sunday morning before he left for work. So there I am, sitting in bed, crying because I feel so taken care of, missing him even more.
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It’s always the little thoughtful things that mean the most! 🥹
Very sweet but careful with diffusers and cats and sometimes dogs some oils are toxic to animals
Very sweet but careful with diffusers and cats and sometimes dogs some oils are toxic to animals
That’s honestly the sweetest thing those small, thoughtful gestures hit the hardest. It shows he’s really paying attention and cares about your comfort, even when he’s not around. Definitely a keeper moment.
Awwww, that’s very sweet!
We talk a lot about red flags, but it’s so important to recognize green flags as well. A sweet, thoughtful gesture like this? Done just to make you happy, not to benefit him? That is a wonderful green flag.
I hope you can do something thoughtful for him when he gets back from his trip. “Competing” to be sweet to each other is a great relationship dynamic.
He sounds like a keeper. 🙂
It’s the little things that show they pay attention