The perfect body is made up

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The idea of “the perfect body” for women is something made up by women to try and please everyone when it’s not possible. Yes, you have a few guys who want “the ideal woman” but the bulk of men don’t care. We like a little extra weight, we like small boobs, we like baggy clothes, we like no makeup. Men have their own preferences on body types just like women have their own preferences on body types.

Instead of worrying about tiny little details like “I need to lose these 2 pounds so I don’t look fat” just live your life. If making yourself happy is losing those 2 pounds then fine, lose them, if not don’t worry about them. If the only reason you want big boobs is to have “the perfect body” but otherwise you don’t want them, don’t get them. Women stress themselves out beyond belief just to look good when in reality the right guy will find you beautiful regardless of how you look.

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  2. SensitiveMedia2024 Avatar

    Not an unpopular opinion, I think?

  3. DamonOfTheSpire Avatar

    So you’re realizing that perfect is an opinionated matter?

  4. iLUBB759 Avatar

    Some of y’all are so stuffy lol. I appreciate this post! It’s nice to see it be said ☺️

  5. howjon99 Avatar

    All that shit just for ego- doesn’t mean anything…

  6. Jumpy-Claim4881 Avatar

    What a refreshing post, quite honestly!

  7. Flowerloving_ogre Avatar

    most people aren’t in good enough shape to justify having demands for it in their partner.

    however, I’ll make the argument that the way you look is a reflection of your personality, so if your body doesn’t match then neither will anything else, so it’s not that shallow to judge people based on what their body looks like since it’s the result of the choices they’ve been making in recent years.

    I wouldn’t be able to date someone who isn’t fit, not because I prefer lean bodies, but because I want my partner to be part of the active parts of my life.

  8. BoltsGuy02 Avatar

    This guy needs to get laid

  9. DavidDarnellBrown Avatar

    It’s pretty easy to lose two pounds.