We have MiL under control. I don’t talk to her. We see her like once or twice a year. This is just a story about her behavior.
It was my baby’s first birthday. During the cake part, my husband and I were up by the baby in his high chair. He wasn’t really interested in the cake and we tried to show him and he took a few bites and didn’t care for it. He also pushed my hand away so I said okay you don’t want it. Then MIL came up to the chair from the back of the crowd and she took a chunk out of his cake. Put it in her mouth. She then took it out, I could see how shiny it was with her saliva wetness. She then started to put it towards my baby’s mouth. I pushed her hand away and I said he doesn’t want it and that was in your mouth. She got all pissed and she went back with everyone else. She didn’t say a word to me after and I didn’t care. We had his party in their state because most of our friends and family are still there, we live states away. If you wouldn’t want something from someone else’s mouth, why are you doing that to a baby?
These MIL’s are wild.
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What the FUCK was she thinking that is so disgusting?? Your baby is not a bird??
Ewwww
I wonder how much bacteria was in your MIL’s mouth that she was willing to give your baby.🤢
Eww so gross! And well done for stepping up ensuring that didn’t end up in your baby’s mouth – great to read about such a success!
There is no wayy
That was disgusting.
That’s gross as f*ck. Yuck, yuck, yuck!
I wonder whats going inside those heads to do something like that and think it’s appropriate.
Massive guck & WTF old woman?
I just gagged when I read this. What disgusting behavior! 🤮
Correction: The time your MIL tried to spit in your baby’s mouth on his bday. 🤪🎂 thank goodness you were there to prevent it.
Unintelligent Low Class Biohazard mil
ugh! I wouldn’t give her any alone time or babysitting with your baby.
“No sharing spit, Grandma!” Bleah.
Ewww.
During the smash cake, my MIL tried to get my 1 yr old to lick the frosting off of FIL’s finger. So glad we’re NC. These people no longer mess w our moments.
Good god, she tried to baby bird your child. 🤢
Yuck, so gross…
Omg this makes me sick just imagining it 🤮
Gross!!! The main character syndrome here is severe! So glad you deflected THAT!!!!!
EWWWWWWWWWW
Oh, eww!
Totally disgusting!
What a piece of work that woman is!
Good for you for your quick reaction in protecting your baby!
She sounds like an absolute fruitcake. She should not be around LO, till he is at least 6 years old. What a nasty old she is.
Ewwwww
I literally screamed out loud when I read this! It’s truly horrifying!
🤮 I gagged reading that, it also reminds me of one of the many reasons my inlaws would never be trusted with my children my MIL did the same to her at the time 1 yr old granddaughter except instead of cake it was marshmallow she bit down and slobbered all over … to and I quote “make it easier for her to eat” 🤢🤢🤮🤮
Omfg what did I just read?!?! Im a Grandma and could never in a million years think anything like that is okay, yuck!!
My MIL did the same thing minus putting the cake in her mouth. She was sternly told “we have it handled” before reaching baby’s face with the cake. It embarrassed her in front of the whole party but oh well. Your place is grandma, so step back!
What was the purpose of putting it in her mouth first??
WTF!!! WTF!!
Certifiable behaviour