(46m) married for 20 years. Last 6 months there have been 2 suicide attempts from my wife. Last, I had to physically unwrap an electrical cord from around her neck. Good discussions were had and now she is in therapy/psych. But I feel trapped , I’ll go into details if requested. I walk on eggshells my entire life. Im trying to be supportive but it’s all against my own well being. I cook, clean, and make the majority of the income. Im trying to be there for her but im tired. So fucking tired. At what point am I supposed to prioritize my own health?
Therapy doesn’t work for me.
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You need to establish boundaries for your own mental health. Consider seeking support for yourself.
Damn dude, sorry to hear you’re going through this. Sounds like you’re burnt out trying to carry it all. It’s alright to set boundaries for your own well-being. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Might be worth looking into therapy or a support group for yourself too. You’re not alone in this, homie. Keep your head up. 👊💪