What happened is, I went to a concert in a neighboring city where she lives. I hooked up with another girl that day, but when I saw her, I got interested. We talked for a long time that day at the concert; she was interested in me, too. This was in mid-August. After the concert, I looked for her, found her profile, and followed her on Instagram. She messaged me, we talked, and I really liked her, and she felt the same way.
The following week, we kept talking, and this past weekend, we went on a date.
We spent hours talking at a little bar, then we walked around the streets late at night, kissing and talking. On Saturday, we went to another concert. It was amazing to hear her sing, hug and playfully bite each other, talk about things, and just admire her… she was really into me.
However, I’m a 26-year-old male. I haven’t gotten the job I want yet; I’m not consistently working in my profession yet. I work as an assistant, but my career plan would be to leave my city and go to a remote city to work in mining.
She’s a 19-year-old female. A beautiful, interesting girl, very close to her family, very affectionate with me. She compliments me in all sorts of ways, and we have common interests like painting, fashion design, classic cars, and pop/rock music. She comes from a family background that is quite socioeconomically compatible with mine.
She’s a younger girl who lives in another city, and I’m still working as an assistant, while some of my friends are already engineers at big companies.
I don’t have a stable life, but… I really want to get to know her, spend time together, do things, and have moments.
Okay, I’m feeling a bit lonely. It would be nice to have affection, to have great conversations, to have a life to love.
I’m thinking of asking her to be my girlfriend soon. But I’ve only known her for three weeks. If it doesn’t work out, I’ll go on with my life alone.
I would like some advice or suggestions.
TL:DR
Met a 19-year-old girl, we really connected and went on a great date. I’m 26 and my career isn’t stable yet, which makes me feel a bit insecure. Despite this, I really like her and am thinking of asking her to be my girlfriend after just three weeks.