This is for the older gentlemen: how has your definition of “in love” changed as you’ve gotten older?

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This is a question for the older gentleman. Men around 50 or thereabouts.

I’m wondering; has your definition of being “in love” changed as you have gotten older?

What does being in love mean to you? Do you have to have butterflies or a racing heart every time you see your partner?

Do you need to feel “in love” with your partner or is it enough to feel that the fundamentals have been met: you love them, your goals align, you feel you can be yourself, you love each other’s company, life in the bedroom is good etc.

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    This is a question for the older gentleman. Men around 50 or thereabouts.

    I’m wondering; has your definition of being “in love” changed as you have gotten older?

    What does being in love mean to you? Do you have to have butterflies or a racing heart every time you see your partner?

    Do you need to feel “in love” with your partner or is it enough to feel that the fundamentals have been met: you love them, your goals align, you feel you can be yourself, you love each other’s company, life in the bedroom is good etc.

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  2. thetruthfornow Avatar

    I wouldn’t say it’s the same, only deeper!