I have a friend with benefits. In our relationship there’s been a lot more emphasis on the friends part. I was starting to fall for him, hard! Then in between having sex he said “I’m not thinking about your pleasure at all, I’m just focusing on fucking you hard, and it’s good right?” And I said “yeah” and that was the end of it. I wanted to say yeah, now get the fuck out of my house! But I couldn’t. I tried to feel that feeling of making love like I did the last time we had sex but that ship had sailed and been destroyed and sunk! The last time I was in love we both got off on getting each other off. And I think that is a necessity for me to be in love.
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We’ll probably best he said it when he did then if you were starting to fall for him. Better to know how he feels / what he’s like before that happens.
And yeah, most people find pleasure in pleasing their partner. At least the type of people you wanna be with do.