This past weekend I had sex for the first time.

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Last weekend my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time! Made love, did the dance with no pants. The horizontal mambo as Mrs. Doubtfire would say. He really put in an effort to make sure I was calm and at ease. He made me a mix tape. Had candles of my favorite scent and was nothing but patient with me as he talked and guided me through everything. We both laughed at my reaction when he put the lube on me and that helped ease the last bit of tension that I had. He was slow and careful, and kept reassuring me I can stop at anytime. When it was happening I was wondering why weren’t doing this sooner. Apparently before I was about to finish I hummed lay all your love on me by abba. Which wasn’t on the mix tape now that I think of it. I could not tell because my ears were ringing. When it was done, we just held each other. He kept asking me if I was ok. We stayed in the entire weekend just watching movies and enjoying each others company. This experience was everything I expected and enjoyed. I am not only happy that I waited. I am happy that I waited for the right time, with the right person.

I would like to thank everyone for their kind words and advice. It really helped. For those of you that did. May you get extra nuggets in your meal when you order. May you get 3 scoops of ice cream when yoi only paid for 2. May you get a free appetizer with your meal.

Comments

  1. fuzzdoomer Avatar

    I’m hung up on the “mix tape” part. I haven’t heard that term in many a moon.

  2. zomystro Avatar

    Wow. If you orgasmed your first time consider yourself lucky. Some women have never experienced one in their whole life. It’s pretty rare to have one your first experience.

  3. megararara Avatar

    Things didn’t work out with my high school sweetheart (for the best I’m 32 now and expecting my first baby with the love of my life) but I will forever be thankful to him for being so gentle and respectful. I wasn’t nervous at all and there was absolutely no pain! I’m having a daughter and I don’t want to make sex a big deal or her virginity to be her value but I do also want to share how it can be such a positive experience that doesn’t have to be nervewracking and painful.