I (23M) tend to be silent and / or on autopilot when doing something. It’s not that bad for me, but for other people, they tend to get scared of me due to my emotionless face. One time someone asked me if was the real life michael myers, which was a little funny but at the same time a little insulting to me.
But one day me and my girlfriend were in our living room watching clockwork orange (which yeah a really weird movie for us to be watching but go with it) my girlfriend then started to get close to my face and we started making out, afterwards we were in bed doing the deed, as always I had my emotionless face on and the only
That change were my few instances of making a grunt noise or eyebrow raising.
My girlfriend noticed this and was noticeably frightened and she asked me if I was OK ?
I was like “yeah just getting the job done” she was visibly confused and disturbed by my behavior, she thought I was a zombie who had somehow got drugged out of there mind that they didn’t care for brains. I didn’t react and continue on, but she soon started to get scared, and so we decided to stop and sleep. The next day, I found out she left to go to her friend’s house and said she didn’t feel safe around me.
TL;DR: I fucked up my relationship with her due to my emotionless face when doing something when that’s how I am and now she scared to be around me now and may want to break up with me.
Ps I meant emotionless in heading
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If I’ve learned anything over the years, it’s that women love when their partners refer to sex as “the job.”
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Just explain yourself. If anyone gets it, it should be your girlfriend.
Bro, sex with your trusted SO is the best place were you could let your emotions go, enjoy the closeness and the overall process. I don’t blame your gf that she reacted that way, as it’s pretty concerning when you are treating sex as you would throw out the garbage or doing any other chore. If you were not in the mood that’s not a sin as a guy to reject the advances that night, but if you act that way every time I would get concerned, and if I were you maybe started to think about deeper reflection why you treat it that way, or look for more professional help. Remember trying to better yourself is not the weakness.
“getting the job done” is the least sexy phrasing you could possibly have uttered,,, you might as well have called sex with her a chore, oh god
AI makes the title contradict the story.
Why is this sub AI central now? You get like half a dozen AI stories in a row every day.
Was that the first time you and your girlfriend had sex? If not, how did she never notice before?
It was absolutely about your phrasing more than anything else.