Today I fucked up, My fiancé (F22) had left her phone in the car with me while getting ready for work. I wanted to send her a NSFW video of us it’s something we do regularly but I wasn’t sure if I sent it already. So I wanted to check her phone to see if I did, we both know each other password and share our phones. I opened her hidden folder and all hell broke loose in my mind because I saw sex tapes between her and her ex. My heart started racing and I realized I could’ve just looked at the videos sent between us on my phone instead of looking at hers. I almost threw up and started having an anxiety attack. She got back you the car and I didn’t say anything I decided I’ll tell her I saw it later. After I picked her up from work I told her the whole thing and she said well that’s my consequences for going in her phone, she never wanted me to see that and got rid of all her pictures of her ex’s but forgot about the hidden folder so I saw the worst thing I possibly could. She feels bad I saw it but it’s also my fault for looking. I can’t sleep nor think straight cuz all I see is the love of my life fucking someone else.
TL;DR: I looked at my finances hidden folder in her photos and found her and her ex’s sex tapes causing me great emotional distress.
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Don’t you need face unlock to access the hidden folder?
“She forgot”
The amount of people forgetting to delete really intimate old data from previous partners is surprisingly/suspiciously high.
Make your own movies together
Yup, it it your fault. People are allowed their privacy. Even if she kept them on purpose, the only important bit is that she with you. Stay out of your others phone if you don’t want to know what they keep on there. Think of it like their brain and or thoughts, they are allowed to have some private ones.
btw your excuse for going into her phone was flimsy at best.
How long have you been together? Because I bet she did know about them but decided to keep a hold of them.
You looked at her phone to see if you sent her something rather than your own?