Today i fucked up with a girl
Me 18 (Male) started talking to this girl on Instagram a few days ago and the connection was really really good she was cute and exactly my type beauty wise with the hair, eyes and everything. So after we were talking for a few hours she says to me that she has to tell me something important and i am like “what is it?” And then she drops the bomb and says she is trans and i already had a connection with her (I wanted to be friends with benefits with her) even after she said she is trans because she was cute and i felt warmth when i talked to her and i felt like she cared about me and was into me and i have never had that with someone honestly. She wanted a serious relationship and i just wanted something less time consuming to be honest with y’all
And before i hit her on IG my friend told me she was trans but she was cute
I was not sexuality into the fact that she has a penis
I was more attracted to her face (she looks more beautiful than most girls i have ever seen)
I feel like there is something wrong with me because of the whole situation my friends say that i don’t have a spine and i lowered my standards because of that
I just wanted to feel something
TL;DR TIFU and now i feel so sad and i don’t understand myself it hurts and i cannot be friends with her i cannot sleep as well and my head feels dizzy.
TIFU by rejecting a relationship
r/tifu
Comments
Figure out what you want and tell her you thought it over and do want to try for a relationship if she’s open to it.
Sounds like you don’t have an issue with her being trans. That’s good! Just say what type of relationship you’re open to, and if she’s down, date her. If not, no worries maybe you can be friends.
Calm down dude! I’m also M18, if that matters. I’m not sure I’m understanding what’s happening. Why exactly did you reject her, is it because she’s trans, or you just wanna be fwb, or you feel like dating a trans girl would be lowering your standards? Calm down m8, it’s going to be ok, just take a deep breath and explain what’s going on.
Just to clear something guys
The problem is that i talked to her and we both want different things from the relationship
She want something more serious and i want something more casual
She is truly a good person i believe and it’s sad because it didn’t work out between us
I feel wrong because we only talked for 1 day but we talked to much and laughed so much and i have never had that with someone before
My friends told me I don’t have a spine and i lower my standards because of that