So there’s a guy that I liked who I met through my high school’s musical. Today he and a friend made a video where they reviewed peeps flavors and made a very fun thumbnail for, I got sent the thumbnail not knowing it was for a video. I sent the photo to two group chats, one with him in it to ask what it was from and the other to a group of people who don’t go to our school because I thought it was funny and wanted to share. He responded to me telling me that it was from a video and sent it to me. I wanted to send the video to the other group to tell them what the photo was from. I captioned the video “look what musical guy made” because that’s what we call him in the group. I sent it to the group with him and nobody has responded, I sent a message explaining that everyone is bad with names and because I mentioned him in a story I told the group once they’ve called him that. How do I recover from this please help me?
TL;DR I was texting a group chat a video of my crush and texted a group chat with the crush in it instead.
TIFU by sending a message to the wrong group chat
r/tifu
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I know you’re freaking out but from the outside this really isn’t that bad. If anything I’d just message him privately and this could serve as your way into his DMs
You’re way overthinking it. Just leave it be. If he likes you and picks up on it, great! If not he’ll probably just assume it was intended for another chat. Drawing attention to it by trying to back pedal or explain beyond “whoops, wrong chat” is only going to make it uncomfortable.
You sound pretty young (highschool), so just try to remember that no matter how awkward it feels in the moment, clear communication is never a bad thing, especially if it involves romance.