TIFU by trying to act fancy at a lobster dinner and accidentally assaulting my boss’s wife with seafood

r/

So this happened 2 days ago and I’m still not sure if I’m employed or about to be a meme.

I’ve been working my ass off trying to land this job in a company I really admire. Like interviews, follow-ups, little “thank you” emails that took me 40 mins to write just to sound casual. Finally I get the call—I’m in. Job offer signed. They say “hey come meet the team, we’re going out for a welcome dinner.”

Cool. Chill. I can do this. I’ve been dreaming of this.

We get to this really fancy seafood place. I’m trying to act like I eat here all the time even tho the fanciest thing I’ve eaten this year is microwave risotto. Everyone starts ordering lobster. Like, one after another. And I’ve never had lobster in my life but I panic and go “Yeah same, I’ll have the lobster too.”

So already, I’m in deep.

Food arrives. Everyone’s got tools. Like actual plier-things and pokey sticks and some kind of seafood guillotine. I’m tryin to play it cool, watching how other ppl do it while pretending I totally know what I’m doing. I also said no to the bib they offered me like an absolute alpha idiot.

So I go in. I’m cracking and twisting and sweating. Then I go for the big claw. I grab the cracker thing and squeeze it like I’m trying to break into a safe.

The claw EXPLODES. Not like a lil pop. Like, full-on SEAFOOD GRENADE.

This massive chunk of lobster meat FLIES out—in slow motion—and lands right in my new boss’s wife’s wine glass. Merlot EVERYWHERE. It splashes up and hits her face and her white blouse and just soaks everything. Silence. Like dead, horrifying silence.

I freeze. Like I’ve just committed a seafood hate crime. I mumble “oh my god I’m so sorry” and try to dab at her blouse with a napkin which, pro tip, don’t do that. She just looks at me for like 3 seconds… then BURSTS OUT LAUGHING.

Turns out she’s always hated lobster and was lowkey terrified of it the whole dinner. She said she felt like it finally “fought back.” My boss starts laughing too. Whole table joins in. I’m red as the lobster.

Next day she posts it on IG with the caption “I got clawed by Lobster Guy” and guess what… it kinda blew up. The company’s internal Slack made a welcome meme out of me with the caption “no clawbacks on this hire.”

HR sent me a lobster bib with my name on it.
I start next week. Apparently I “made an impression.”

TL;DR: Tried to fit in at my first fancy work dinner, ordered lobster for the first time ever, launched a claw chunk into my boss’s wife’s wine, ruined her blouse, now everyone calls me “Lobster Guy.” Still got the job. Somehow.

Comments

  1. Electrical_Power4236 Avatar

    Capitalism really is not good for us

  2. TheRiddlerTHFC Avatar

    Sounds like it all worked out well

  3. kathatter75 Avatar

    You literally made a splash 🙂 Job well done!

  4. whatproblems Avatar

    now everybody knows who you are. do a good job and you’re good. sometimes you gotta screw up just to get your name known.

  5. SATerp Avatar

    Wow, nice happy ending!

  6. minnowmonroe Avatar

    Other a tiny lobster pin. Get lobster tie and socks. Wear them on special occasions at work.

  7. spacemouse21 Avatar

    Congratulations, you crustaceaned it!

  8. lostdad75 Avatar

    Never order lobster if you are trying to impress…especially if any alcohol is involved.

  9. randomkeystrike Avatar

    Way to claw into the company culture. Which sounds pretty wholesome, too.

  10. pissfucked Avatar

    if spun correctly, this can be an inside joke among you and your coworkers even YEARS from now lmao

  11. Rhesusmonkeydave Avatar

    It was nice of you to aerially share your seafood, now she knows you’re not shellfish. That’s a good way to butter her up as you claw your way to the top!

  12. shipwreckedpiano Avatar

    Only fuckup here was drinking Merlot with lobster.

  13. mostlyharmless71 Avatar

    Amazing story! Thanks for sharing!

  14. sportsntravel Avatar
  15. desertsidewalks Avatar

    The cheat code here is to order the lobster roll, if available. Already shucked lobster on a nice roll.

  16. AdAccomplished6870 Avatar

    At least they know that as a coworker, you won’t be shellfish

  17. Sea_Branch_2697 Avatar

    Congrats, you’re a legend and they love you.

  18. theunhappythermostat Avatar

    All I wanna say is that I’m floored just how fast generative content, and generative comments, and automated likes, are hijacking this place. WHY. It’s sad, really, to see internet dying. I guess it’s one of the I-was-here-moments, right? :/

  19. taigowo Avatar

    But is lobster any good, or overrated?

  20. 42brie_flutterbye Avatar

    Is this what “claw your way to the top” means?

  21. CertainlyNotDen Avatar

    This sounds amazing! Hilarious incident and the best possible outcome. Sounds like the boss’ wife and the company in general are real humans. Hire me!

  22. smileplace Avatar

    Sounds like you will enjoy working there. Took it all in stride like champs.

  23. SumDumGuy808 Avatar

    Damn. First thought was Hentai stuff with Octopus!!

  24. TNTinRoundRock Avatar

    Ya done good. Welcome aboard.

  25. Reasonable_Star_959 Avatar

    That is so funny!! 😀

  26. PichieBear Avatar

    Forever known as the Lobster Guy. That’s how it goes.

    In a Q&A with the CEO, I mindlessly said I liked his shirt before asking my question. I became known as the shirt guy

  27. otter_mayhem Avatar

    Hilarious and relatable, lol. I showed my appreciation for baby back ribs one time at a work get together for my ex-husbands work along with another wife. The owner came up to us and told us how happy it made him to see someone enjoying the food instead of nibbling politely. I was embarrassed but my ex made a huge deal about how much I embarrassed him. He apologized to the boss, and this was the owner of the company. The owner told him he was delighted we were enjoying ourselves and politely put him in his place. I still love that man and he’s dead now and no longer with the ex. Good luck in your new job and I’m glad they have a sense of humor!

  28. Jgibbjr Avatar

    thank you; it’s nearly 5pm, and this was my 1st genuine laugh of the day 😅😅

  29. trippedonatater Avatar

    This is awesome. You just started and you already have a fun inside joke!

  30. Beestung Avatar

    Own that shit – it makes you stand out and be remembered, which is gold.

    My own story: I had a day-long interview with a very large software company in the Pacific Northwest. Part of it was over lunch at a local steakhouse with my future boss and co-worker. They ordered salads. I ordered a huge fuckin’ meat sandwich monstrosity, then proceeded to try to answer interview questions while eating this thing. I finished maybe 1/4 of it and took the rest in a box. I ended up getting hired and they made fun of me for it for months.

  31. Equivalent_Subject_1 Avatar

    Change your name to Claud

  32. kimsart Avatar

    Own it, you are now and forever the lobster guy. You need to show up to work with a Tide to go pen and some kind of lobster paraphernalia to show you face a sense of humor.

  33. lostinaquasar Avatar

    This isn’t a fuck up, its a fuck down! You endeared yourself to the powers at be. Being real with people and not acting holier than tho is a good trait to have. Live your life! Good things will follow. Good luck!

  34. scuba_GSO Avatar

    If you were in the military you probably would’ve earned your call sign like this – Lobster. It will now follow you forever.

  35. Dazzling_Flamingo568 Avatar

    That was a very entertaining read!

  36. boringbutkewt Avatar

    You Pretty Woman-ed the shit out of that dinner hehe (scared nobody will get the reference)

  37. PoppinThatPolk Avatar

    Funny enough, I don’t think you FU at all. You’re good. It sounds like you’ve found a good place to work at with that kind of humor.

  38. Specialist_Badger934 Avatar

    But did you like the lobster?

  39. Cryptic1911 Avatar

    that’s awesome

  40. hipsterscallop Avatar

    You’re good. Lean into it. They clearly have a sense of humor it’s not like you attacked her with lobster on purpose.

    It’s going to take a while to live down, but I feel like this is a great ice breaker – er – shell breaker.

  41. Bearlicious1904 Avatar

    Dont worry, sounds like your automatically on the cool guy good for a wholesome laugh list

  42. The_Real_DaBsTeR Avatar

    You’re now a legend in that office like it or not.

  43. Fluid-Tip-5964 Avatar

    Do not allow anyone to call you “lobster boy”. Bad karma…google it.

  44. glycophosphate Avatar

    Boss’s wife is the hero in this story.

  45. Insight42 Avatar

    You know what, like everyone else said, own that one!!! There’s worse things to be than Lobster Guy.

    But take it from a dude who has had lobster for decades now – you can’t fully avoid it, and you have to have a sense of humor. I have gone for lobster with a female friend and sprayed lobster juice in her eye from across the table, she hit me with shell pieces when cracking into a claw, etc.. That’s why they give you a bib, it’s going to get messy and there’s not much way around that.

  46. MikeHock_is_GONE Avatar

    You might be the newest director of seafood operations 

  47. the_dayman Avatar

    This is the dumbest-ass chat gpt shit I’ve read in the last hour. Like why would you ask it to write this?

  48. thereminDreams Avatar

    Use your power wisely.

  49. neil-01 Avatar

    LOL, been there with the fancy dinner fails! You survived the lobster gauntlet!

  50. GeneralChaosBR Avatar

    You have to embrace this now. Congrats on the job! Sounds like a place that’s great to work for.

  51. TetrangonalBootyhole Avatar

    I am legitimately happy for you, stranger. You got your in.

  52. boykinsir Avatar

    Be sure to put the lobster bib in a frame and put it on your wall. Own it.

  53. fibro_witch Avatar

    Do you need to wear ties at work, you can get them with lobsters on it, or just a tie clip with lobsters on them and they really lean in lobsters everywhere make lobsters your thing

  54. ShimmerTrais Avatar

    Yes it was truly epic!

  55. kartikzzz Avatar

    so he has his boss’ wife’s instagram? not to even mention the writing style? please learn to distinguish GPT generated text, people 🙃