Ok so it happened yesterday and not today but you get the idea
So there’s this girl I like very much. She’s one of my closest friends and I really like her. I don’t know what happened but I had already gotten rejected twice by her because she had feelings for someone else. Yesterday, I could not hold my feelings in any longer and started typing her a message about how I hoped things could be different and that maybe we have a chance at being together in the future.
Additionally, I kept typing the phrase ‘I love you’ to her again and again between messages and I might have done that 5 times.
So later in the evening, I jerk off and that post nut clarity finally hits me like a tsunami. I still like her but ‘love’ is such an overstatement, at least for now. I finally realised what I had done was the thing most people call lovebombing. And the amount of cringe I felt for what I had done was very overwhelming.
Don’t get me wrong, I still like her very much but I should definitely have used more appropriate words to express my feelings instead of using heavy words like ‘love’.
And in case you’re wondering why I sound so immature, it’s maybe because I’m 15 and still in high school
TL;DR My dick made me type out exaggerated claims about my love for a girl
Comments
Lovebombing is intentionally flooding someone with attention and gifts to manipulate them. You’re a horny teen. It’s different and you’re okay
You’re 15. Your hormones are running wild. We all do these things at your age. When you’re 25, you’ll remember these things and cringe at it.
Don’t feel bad. It’s perfectly normal.
Also, you will not meet the love of your life at 15. Just bust a nut and have a fun time. You don’t need a girlfriend at 15. Enjoy your young days, stop lamenting about needing a GF or something so silly.
If your older self could time travel, he speak this exact message to you.
>And in case you’re wondering why I sound so immature, it’s maybe because I’m 15 and still in high school
This is weirdly self aware lol
I must be getting old. When I was young the word ‘love’ was thrown around everywhere all the time and no-one took it too seriously.