TIFU: LinkedIn connect feeling entitled to my body.

TLDR: met 4 years university senior via LinkedIn to know about a job, now he’s fantasising about office sex and planned a weekend road trip saying I should guarantee him sex.

So…
I connected with my university senior who’s working in the company I wanna work at and DMed him to advice and help me on. He volunteered for a meet up to help and I agreed and met him.

That meet-up went so well, he answered all my questions and helped me through and told he would give me refferal.

10 mns after we split, he messaged me saying he’s really into my vibe and aura and looking forward to know where this takes us. I found it genuine and fun. Later that night he started making moves on me. He was down bad, smooth at flirting and was fun to talk to.

Next day he explicitly stated he wants to meet me and I’ve been on his mind all day. I said we could meet but except nothing more as I’m on my periods, we met at the nearby park and he said we would walk me back home, and he stayed with me for 2 hrs dude to train delay (IDK if that’s true) and we kissed and started cuddling. He wanted to have sex despite my periods and I said I don’t do that and I take time. He laughed and said you better be ready before we meet the next time.

Reaching home, he said he loves the way I’m at bed and that makes him feel refreshing and can’t wait to “use” me to satisfy his sexual cravings. That gave me an ick and didn’t text him for 2 days.

He later texted me normally and I started responding normally, he sent me his referal kink for the job. Then later started asking personal photos, I said I’m uncomfortable with it. He said he wants me to talk dirty and keep him horny while he’s at work, this is when I texted him to know about the cover letter expectations.

He later went on to describe how he would like for me to get selected to the office and him being my mentor (as I’m a trainee) and “using” me. I felt being objectified and didn’t reply. He texted me to plan a meet this weekend to get to know each other. He suggested drive and chose a place he them said he’s okay to do this if I guarantee sex. I said I don’t want to go out with him and we should just hang out in the city centre (where I live and he works at).

He then said I should guarantee sex if I wanna meet him again… I lost it all. This man knows me for 5 days in total, btw. He said this all despite me saying I’m not a huge enthusiast of sex. That’s when it actually hit me he saw nothing but an object he could own.

I feel so dehumanised. And beating myself for enabling this. I wish I could go back and erase it all. Now I’m scared of applying for the role. Or getting into the place. Or working there. Or worse, under him.

I feel sick in my stomach.

(He is 4 yes older than me and passed out of my degree 4 yrs ago)