throwaway account- so i (28F) have been fantasizing about this guy all day pretty much. we have been distant “friends” for some years but enough to speak if we ever cross paths. The friend (28?M). Lately I have been really feeling myself and took some nudes (with face) and caught myself wanting to share with him. so i messaged him normal chit chat but then i sent “i just wanted to check in and see how you are. to be real i cant help but to think the way you carry yourself is really sexy, and i think youre fine too. would it cross a boundary if i wanted to share a photo of my breasts?” he asked about my relationship status and then responded “yeah send me those titties” So I texted him the photo. to me its super hot and my tits look great. but his only response was the salute emoji. thats all. I heart reacted the emoji and then said “have a nice day” and didnt hear anything back. My intention wasnt to sext or date him or even fuck him. i went in with the intention of getting nothing out of the interaction. BUT i think i am embarrassed? what does responding the random nudes you consented too, with a salute emoji even mean? i think i fucked up because is it possible to just have a casual friendship after that? he is a really stand up guy so im not worried he will share it or anything. and if he does, im not really mad cause i think im hot. but???? a salute emoji??
TL;DR: Sent a nude with face to a friend. he responded with the salute emoji and i think i just fucked up socially, and embarrassed for myself lol
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He’s processing what might be the best thing to ever happen to him and he’s wondering what the catch might be. Just call and say hi and see what’s up.
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Any guy who doesn’t respond to a nude as if he’s never seen a titty before isn’t a guy worth worrying about. He’s the embarrassing one in this story
Ok, so…Â
Maybe let us decide if you should be embarrassed and if the salute was warranted.Â
We don’t need the face btw. Fuzz it.
Just bury it deep deep in the furthest spot of your memory and carry on
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It does sound like you went all in with your text so maybe he was just caught off guard at you actually following through with the nude
It means he did his duty and rubbed one out to that picture. You’re welcome.
Uhh he asked you to send the pic, and then basically thanked you for it in the most “professional” way possible. Either he loved it and doesn’t want to seem thirsty or he didn’t and doesn’t want to seem rude.
If you were bold enough to ask him if he wants to see your tits, just be a big girl and ask if he wants a view in person 🤣
At least he respected and asked about your relationship status first. No boundaries are crossed. If you are comfortable and confident he should commend you for it. Unless you were expecting more of a response.
P.S I’m happy to give a response also.
I recently got my first nude,
he …. definitely is second doubting why he may have gotten something so special and is fucking estatic. So don’t worry about it and continue talking to him
I think you should talk to him. Maybe let him know where you stand so there’s no expectations of any kind, so he doesn’t think he’s suddenly gonna get laid. if he’s a decent individual, he won’t share with everybody, but he’ll probably share with somebody…its a dude thing. Don’t be embarrassed. i have lots of friends with chick friends who are platonic but have no issues with sharing risqué pictures with each other.
Continue as though he responded in the best possible way.
where should i share my nude on here to get a second opinion? do people just post nudes in the comments? lmao
salutes are a positive emoji.
he might think its a honey trap
He’s standing at attention. Not a bad thing.
Don’t sweat it. You’re fine.
He’s probably trying not to cross a boundary either. From the way you’re describing the relationship you two have it sounds likely to me that he wanted to show appreciation but not escalate or assume you’re looking for more.
For real just talk it out a bit, you’ve got nothing to lose clearing the air. If you wanted a fun reaction and only that then let him know you think it’s exciting sending him this but you want to know if he’s ok with it staying at that level etc. there’s no real norm for this shit, it’s highly dependent on the situation and the people involved
Post it. Then you’ll know how we feel
Maybe he is just Canadian and thought the titties pic was a greeting and saluted your tits.
Okay, so are you going to share with the class?
Really? Not gonna anonopost those lovebags for the world to see? Nobody knows who you are. It’s fine. Do it.
You should both talk about it like grown ups.
When a person salutes, he stands ERECT. You get the hint?
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It’s about to get real thirsty in here