So ive had a crush on this guy for ages but ive got a seizure condition. My seizures are usually caused by stressful and getting overly nervous. Obviously, this goes amazing with having anxiety lol.
So basically me and my crush are js on a walk and im thinking that it’s going well and he feels the same abt me. Im also freaking out internally bc this could be the day we have our first kiss which is terrifying but in a good way (idk if that makes sense).
After like an hour or so we’re at the top of some hill, js talking abt random stuff and he jokingly says ‘this would be a great place to kiss.’ This kinda stuff gets me really nervous and red and i start laughing awkwardly then i half jokingly lean in to kiss him. Big mistake lol.
He leans in as well, literally pulling me in to kiss him, so im fcking terrified of whats happening but also super happy abt it bc i wanna kiss him. Then js before we can actually kiss everything goes blank and when it’s not blank, we’re sitting on the ground and hes js making sure im okay. He starts explaining that i had a seizure and hes really sorry abt it, still obviously checking if im okay and asking if he should call anyone. Im like ‘nahhh it’s all good’.
After all this happened he asks ‘ik this is probably a really awkward time to say but i still think this is a good place to kiss.’ I agree w that and kiss him, so now we’re dating lol.
TL;DR: i had a seizure trying to kiss my crush but we’re dating now
Quick edit: i know its not exactly a fuck up but it started with a fuck up and ended rlly well lol
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But did you get that first kiss??
Don’t sweat it. It was out of your control! This would be a cute story to tell at your wedding 🙂
It’s not ideal, but it’s not exactly a fuck up either.
At least the seizure added a little drama to what could have been a boring first date… here’s hoping your future kisses are less shocking but just as rewarding.
Green flag guy
You didnt fuck up tho
am happy for you sis. go girl!
Not a fuck up. Just tell him you sometimes orgasm from kissing.
awwww that’s cute
Js?
Not a FU. If he stayed after that, he’s probably a good dude. That shit’s scary as hell to witness.
All went well, not really a fuck up. But you know what is a fuck up?
Your writing style.
im still waiting on my first siezure
if he stayed and helped u he’s definitely a good guy
I misread “trying to kill my crush”
Lol that would be kind of cute to get a kiss and just she starts spazzing out. You’re like what the hell 😂
Sigh. I guess I’m old because I couldn’t read this without wanting to stab myself in the eyes. I hope it has a happy ending though.
Sounds like it all worked out!!
R/aww
YESSSS
Omega green flags from this guy
Probably got a first kiss and a little more while you were seizing. I would go to the ER IMMEDIATELY for a rape kit to be done. He may have raped you while you were unconcious.
Such a cute story. I’m glad it all worked out.
Old guy here… Is it that much more trouble to type about and just and I know? I see this a lot and I know what’s meant, but why not just type out the whole word?
A keeper
Well that was surprisingly adorable.
Could be worse, I’m assuming you didn’t piss or shit yourself as a lot of people do when they have a seizure?
Sounds like a good dude. 👍
That’s an adorable story. I hope things goes well and its a story to remember
It didn’t even start with a fuck up. Why are you posting this here?
This is actually really wholesome 🥹
This was a great moment where you could see that you could potentially trust this guy with your life. I hope you both have a happy life together 🙂
https://preview.redd.it/7h216l7hqwaf1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=690cb12b8dcbba762e892dad3d6b3988a0fa68d4
Not sure where the TIFU is.
js abt 2 hv strk rdng ths
Im glad ur ok. I got scared one of u rolled off the hill or something 😭
You literally fell for him
If you’re blacking out before a simple kiss, this relationship is going to be a heck of a roller coaster.
This is straight out of a movie
What does js mean
He likes you so much it’s kind of adorable. You didn’t mess anything up, your body just went full drama mode.
Thats wholesome as fuck. I hope you get married.
I about had a seizure trying to figure out what “js, abt, ik” meant
If you don’t marry this man, I will.
Learn to spell. That hurt to read. Glad you are okay.
this is a cute story u may tell your grandkids
I hate the way you text
Seizures aren’t really something you can help. The fact that your new boyfriend recognized that and just tried to help you, then let you actually have that kiss proves he’s a good guy. Hang on to him.
You used whatever “js” is 2x more than needed which is kinda hilarious for an abbreviation of a four letter word
100 percent marriage material
I read this as “couch” and assumed it was J.D.
That’s a keeper right there
Look at it this way, you two are never gonna forget your first kiss
Glad it worked out in the end.
Man I would have panic so bad. If I grab someone to kiss them and they star having seizures.
Here. Have a bouquet of green flags. 🇳🇬
Marry him now
Pro Tip: Try not to do that at the wedding.
bf material fr!!!
okay but this is literally the most chaotic and wholesome love story ever 😭
“…we have our first kiss which is terrifying but in a good way (idk if that makes sense).”
Makes sense for everyone in love, sweetheart! This lyrics is some 350 years old:
If love’s a sweet passion why does it torment?
If a bitter, oh tell me, whence comes my content?
Since I suffer with pleasure, why should I complain
or grieve at my fate, when I know it’s in vain.
Yet so pleasing the pain is so soft as the dart
That at once it both wounds me and tickles my heart.
I should add that I also have epilepsy, and the only one I let near me after a tonic-clonic before regaining consciousness is my wife. I’m apparently shying away from everybody else.
Good place to have a seizure
I love how he indirectly asked for consent instead of just kissing you by saying this and observing your reaction. That way he’s sure without killing the moment – making it even better. That’s what I say when I tell people that you don’t have to kill the mood when asking for consent before doing something
r/wholesome maybe?
my 69666420th reason /s
Please don’t write like that