I (M22) always been the type of person to want to get to know people at a deeper level and actually put time into who I see romantically, but recently I’ve been wanting to experiment and try just hooking up with people as I have needs sexually and am not in a position to have a deep emotional connection, I’ve tried it in the past but have ended up hurting the women I try to just have purely sexual relationships with, every time I’ve tried they’ve gotten attached and wanted more, I thought I made it super clear but maybe I’m not sending the right signals, or maybe not communicating enough, even though I feel like I am. But either way I was wondering what tips people might have for engaging in healthy hook up activities, if that’s even possible haha.
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It’s totally okay to explore casual hookups, as long as you’re upfront and respectful. Be clear about your intentions early and often, don’t assume one mention is enough. Choose partners who genuinely want the same thing, and watch for signs they may be catching feelings. Avoid mixed signals like deep emotional convos or overly affectionate behavior if you’re keeping it casual. Regular check-ins help keep both sides on the same page, and if someone wants more than you can offer, it’s best to walk away kindly. Safe sex, good communication, and emotional honesty are the keys to keeping it healthy.
Yes, it is possible to engage in healthy hookup situations, but it takes emotional clarity, mature communication, and consistent boundaries. Here’s some practical advice for making it more respectful and transparent for everyone involved:
cleear communication is everything.say exactly what you’re looking for and make sure they’re truly on the same page. If there’s hesitation or mixed signals its best to pass. Consent includes emotional clarity too
Dude, tbh, clear communication is key, and I mean CLEAR. Like “I’m just looking for something casual rn” clear. You gotta be upfront right outta the gate, no mixed signals. And if ya see ’em catching feels, bail out responsibly. Respect their feelings but stand your ground. It’s tricky but doable. GL bro!