You wouldn’t be posting this if you didn’t feel that there was something more that you needed to know, in exchange for more you could provide. Don’t immediately go into Defcon 5 just because he’s a dude and you’re hanging out alone with him, for the first time.
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Make sure he isn’t an incel, stay safe and set location to someone u trust
Make sure someone knows where you are.
If you don’t want to do something, firmly say so. Don’t just go with the flow.
If you feel at all uncomfortable, leave. You don’t have to explain.
Boundaries, safety, location with a friend. Be yourself. Have fun! 😁
I mean….. Who is this guy?
A friend? Crush? Classmate? Coworker?
You wouldn’t be posting this if you didn’t feel that there was something more that you needed to know, in exchange for more you could provide. Don’t immediately go into Defcon 5 just because he’s a dude and you’re hanging out alone with him, for the first time.
Ask for his ID and send it to a friend or give a friend your location and meet in a public area with others around.
Other than that! Have a great time.
pepper spray sis