Hey everyone, I need some advice. This is my first relationship, so I’m not sure if I’m overthinking things. I’ve been talking to this girl for about 2 months, and I asked her out last week, and she said yes we are the same age 19. But since then, I’ve noticed some changes that have me confused. Before I asked her out, we would talk late into the night, share a lot, and she’d send me reels, asking about my day and all that. But now that we’re officially dating, she doesn’t seem to initiate conversations anymore, and I don’t get any reels from her either. For example, yesterday, I told her I’d call in the evening, but she said she was busy and needed to “lock in Later that day I found out she was active till like 1 A.M watching a movie so I just assume at this point she doesn’t wanna talk. I’m feeling like the vibe is just fading, and I’m not sure where things are heading. It was so good before we started dating, but now it feels different. Also, according to my friends, they say a good morning and good night text should be something you have at the start and end of your day, but it’s always me who sends them. She never sends anything like that. Before, she used to be really excited to see me every day. She would even tell me first thing in the morning that she was excited to see me, but now that excitement seems to have faded. Even today, she’s been active for hours, but she hasn’t texted me a single thing, and I’m honestly concerned if my time and energy are just being wasted. So, I’m wondering if I should just end things or try to clear stuff up with her? Since this is my first relationship, I’m not sure if this is normal or if I should be concerned. Any advice would be really appreciated!
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Hey everyone, I need advice. I’ve been talking to this girl for two months, and we started dating last week. But since then, she doesn’t initiate conversations or send me reels like before. I’m always the one sending good morning/night texts, and she used to be excited to see me but now seems distant. Today, she’s been active but hasn’t texted me. I’m worried things are fading. Should I end things or talk to her? Any advice would be helpful!
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maybe she’s the type that withdraws more, the more you like her/show you like her. perhaps a woman can provide some clarity as I still find this behavior a bit mysterious. at least for me, I remember taking it as a mixed signal… which is confusing
Well, nobody knows the answer because we’re not in her head. The only person who knows what’s on her mind is her. It could be a variety of things and any advice you get will just be guesses.
just talk to her like a normal person. if you don’t like her answer or that she’s unable to simply communicate what’s happening, then move on.