I absolutely was the girl who had a beach proposal and was a brat, and wore a whack outfit to one of the best days of my life. And I remember every detail because of it!! I never once asked my partner to redo it because he went with the flow instead of making me adhere to his every planned moment. This girl is understandably upset about not being known well enough to have a partner plan a huge milestone not catered to her dream. But, communication is key!! I never blamed my partner for not getting my hair and nails done, making sure I wear a stunning outfit. It was a disaster, but a beautifully done disaster that we both will remember forever because of it!!
OP, you feeling awful in this situation it proof enough that you truly love your partner and will do anything to make them happy. I wish you both the absolute best & communication is key!!
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Backup of the post’s body: I absolutely was the girl who had a beach proposal and was a brat, and wore a whack outfit to one of the best days of my life. And I remember every detail because of it!! I never once asked my partner to redo it because he went with the flow instead of making me adhere to his every planned moment. This girl is understandably upset about not being known well enough to have a partner plan a huge milestone not catered to her dream. But, communication is key!! I never blamed my partner for not getting my hair and nails done, making sure I wear a stunning outfit. It was a disaster, but a beautifully done disaster that we both will remember forever because of it!!
OP, you feeling awful in this situation it proof enough that you truly love your partner and will do anything to make them happy. I wish you both the absolute best & communication is key!!
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