To those who have had a miscarriage, yet did not want children, did you still feel upset to some degree?

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Perhaps it’s a silly question, but I’d very much appreciate hearing your experiences.

When I (F24) was 18, I had a surprise miscarriage. It was more shocking to find out what my body had been developing in secrecy than anything else, after all, it was my first time, and I was on the pill. I’ve never wanted children, so I was (and still am) relieved about it, but as time has passed, I sometimes feel lightly upset about it, when on my period and particularly emotional. Not because I want children (heck no, absolutely not, not even for a millisecond), yet, it… happens.

Is this a common thing? Has anyone here ever experienced it? Is it biological? Again, my apologies if it’s silly to ask.