Trying to get out of a bag relationship 39f

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I need help. I’ve been trying to leave the man I’m with for 2 years. We’ve been together 7yrs. He is 41 I’m 39.

He won’t divorce his ex wife.Though they have been separated 10+ years. He’s constantly lying. He’s Not a father figure just sits on his phone, tablet, Xbox.

My issue is he makes it so I can’t save money. I can’t work, as my MS has made it very difficult. SSDI is in the process. I have 3 kids and need to get out.

I’m stuck in a bad spot. Any advice would be very helpful. I know I should have left him years ago, better yet never been with him. It’s too late for that.

TL;DR; : This is a sample summary of the TLDR rule, just copy the text in gray box. Is this going the right way?