Hey reddit. Umm so yeah, I wasn’t going to update again, but even now, months after my last post, so many amazing people are asking for an update. I’m not even sure if people will see this, but here we are.
UPDATE:
After we broke up and my ex found out I was dating again, he sent tons of passive aggressive “gifts” to me. He posted about one here, saying it was my favorite book. Umm no. “Loving your spouse when you feel like walking away” was not on my to read list, actually.
Anyways… here’s what happened. About a month ago, I found out my ex has a new girlfriend. I was honestly relieved. I kinda thought maybe he’d finally leave me alone. Yeah no.
About a month ago, I started getting DMs from this one girl. Stuff like, “You’re pathetic, no wonder he’s happier now” and “He told me what you did to him.” Obviously, I blocked her, but for every account I blocked there were two more ready to come at me. I eventually had to made my social media private.
About two weeks later, I was out on a date when my ex and this new girlfriend just so happened to show up at the same place. He made a scene, loudly accusing me of stalking him (I was literally eating dinner in a public restaurant). His girlfriend filmed it and posted it on TikTok with some caption about “that crazy ex.” (me. YES ME. im the crazy ex guys)
It blew up more than I ever expected. Not like millions of views, but enough that people I knew started sending me the video asking if it was me. Random strangers commented about how I’m a home wrecker, without even knowing the situation.
I’m just so exhausted of everything. I want to move far away, and get out, but my job just doesn’t allow for that. I’m really just so done with him. I’m in the process of getting a restraining order now. I know this isn’t the update y’all probably wanted, sorry.
Comments
I know it doesn’t feel like it, but ignoring them is the best revenge. I almost feel like this girl is not really his gf, but just some chick he knows who is willing to help him try to bait you.
Get the restraining order and never speak to them. It will bother them the most, and eventually, they will stop simply because they aren’t being fed any drama.
How pathetic he is that he is in a new relationship and he is still seething over you. You live in his mind rent free. Let the mama’s boy enjoy his own filth. I’m so glad for you that this was over before marriage. He is looking for a reaction; don’t give him any. Stay safe!
Updateme!
Oh my gosh, Ive been following your story since the beginning. I know it’s difficult right now, but it’s gonna get better. I promise. Just stick with it.
Girl stand up!!!! Do a story time on tik tok you have proof, don’t shrink yourself for them. Say your peace and keep living your life!!!
Well now you can take the TikTok footage and all the texts and file a restraining order