Update for: My boyfriend has been waiting for my sleeping meds to kick in so that he can have sex with my sister

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He found the throwaway. He found it awhile ago. Everyone in my life that I have told the story to he has approached and said who knows what. I know he’s saying bad things about me, but I don’t think I’d ever be driven to try and find out what he said.

We’ve broken up, but I still live in his house, I’m trying to find a new place but there’s a housing shortage. Ex is kind enough not to put me on the streets, but ruins my fucking day every now and then blowing up at me that my efforts to move have been unsuccessful.

I wish I had somewhere else to go. I wish I could talk to someone about it.

But you took that too, didn’t you? You took my sister, then you took my other sister, then you took my little outlet on reddit away, and you sit around like I’m a freak for not being able to stand on my own when if I ever try to do so you kick me down again? I shouldn’t say anything to anyone should I?

He asked for my blessing to pursue a relationship with my sister. I don’t even know what to fucking tell him. But it’s difficult to condone it when he knows goddamn well that he’s gonna do the same fucking thing again, and this time there are kids involved.

I wish he had the sense not to read this and leave me my outlet. But I bet he’ll read this too even though he knows he fucking shouldn’t.

Comments

  1. Proper_Strategy_6663 Avatar

    honestly I hope his willy rots, you deserve better and I’d tell him that only thing you will bless is him never being near your friends and family ever again.

  2. Chocolatelover4ever Avatar

    Uh, ask for your blessing? Why does he need that. Because if I was in this situation after you got out of there and find a place to move is go no contact with both of them. She’d be stupid to take a cheater anyway. But given that she was fine with betraying you to mess around with him, she’s no prize either. That’s a relationship bound to end in disaster.

    Get out of there as soon as possible and kick them both out of your life. They can get tangled up in whatever mess they want later on.

  3. Shelly_895 Avatar

    Wait, what happened with your other sister?

  4. No_Source_8311 Avatar

    What’s this supposed to mean?
    That’s fucked up man 🫣

  5. pheecljbny Avatar

    Wait, how’d he take away the other sister?!

  6. bro-you-suck Avatar

    Your ex is so fucked up 😨

  7. gobsmacked247 Avatar

    Is there a reason why you are still living together?

  8. Away-Understanding34 Avatar

    You need to find a room for rent ASAP. He doesn’t get say in your moving. Do it while he’s out of the house. Tell him he doesn’t have your “blessing” because it’s sick and twisted. Block him and your sisters. You need a clean break to regain control of your life and mental health. 

  9. doctorpotterhead Avatar

    Did you hear about the women who put milk in the humidifier? You should look that story up

  10. ElkInternational5295 Avatar

    what a fucking sick disgusting individual, dude. i sincerely hope you get away from those fucked up people soon. i’m so sorry

  11. Ricepackz Avatar

    He’s just setting himself up for karma and he’ll see grass isn’t always greener what about an uncle or aunt or even distant friend? I’d think this atmosphere would be toxic for you since you have to see them both while you stay there and be pursues a relationship with your sister

  12. driftwood-and-waves Avatar

    Hey!! OPs shitty ex boyfriend!! You suck. I hope you get what you put out, your balls are always itchy and you step on the sharp corner of a Lego every night, even if you don’t actually own Lego.

    OP, forget them. Easier said then done. Give them your blessing. Cause you know that shit is going to get messy and who cares? Not your problem anymore.

    Go forth. Let your spite fuel you to be even more awesome than you are. And eventually the whole thing will be that shitty thing that happened to you but boy did you learn a lot and grow from it.

    🩷

  13. Preheatedtrauma Avatar

    There was this story i don’t know if it was real or not but there was a girl that got cheated on by her bf and her sister. She took a sounding rod or something thin made of glass. Put it up his urethra and bent his dick and it broke inside of him. Sorry to haunt you with the image.

    Maybe look into that

  14. wes124 Avatar

    If you’re in need, there are women’s shelters out there meant to help people in your situation. Even if you don’t think it’s abuse, financial dependency is a cruel form of breaking someone down and forcing them to stay in bad situations. I’m sorry you’re going through this, I promise it will get better, keep yourself safe and keep your chin up.

  15. xUwUx444 Avatar

    Hey OP’s ex!!! 👋
    have the day you deserve.

  16. noluck77 Avatar

    Wdym he took your other sister

  17. awkwardlylife-ing Avatar

    Well I hope he knows he is fucking trash it takes nothing to be a decent person and not try to bang his exes sister while she’s still around.

  18. woodsoffeels Avatar

    You never said how you found out?

  19. Songisaboutyou Avatar

    So your sister would move in with him? This is so messed up. I wish freedom for you

  20. HelloLofiPanda Avatar

    Can you rent a room vs getting an apartment?

  21. Research_Liborian Avatar

    FYI OP’s “sister” is really just a friend, not a blood relative. They became close and she started calling her that, she lived with OP and her boyfriend, and then moved out. At least that’s what she wrote in the initial post.

    Her BF is still a MASSIVE turd, no doubt about that. I hope she gets out ASAP

  22. sorryforthescoobies Avatar

    Are there no men around or something??? Why are all of your sisters sleeping with this dude? Wtf?

  23. Krsty-Lnn Avatar

    My husband waited for my sleeping meds to kick in so he could maritaly rape me. It took me 8 years for me to figure it out..

  24. xxCrimson013xx Avatar

    To OP’s ex boyfriend: I hope for the rest of your life you step on Legos.

  25. ChocolateAmerican Avatar

    What did he do to take your other sister?

  26. First_Alfalfa2805 Avatar

    Your “sister ” is a horrible person.
    She is supposed to be your best friend.
    What kind of friend does this??

    Let them go. They deserve each other.
    I hope that you’ve stopped being friends and have gone no contact with her.

    I also hope that you find somewhere to move too soon.