Update from previous post of my sister wanting me to come down so I can be the DD

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This is an update from this post https://www.reddit.com/r/internetparents/s/PSdUI44NrT

I’ve learned more info in terms of the beer fest. It wasn’t just my immediate family going; it was also my aunt, uncle, and 2 of their friends. I never texted my sister back in terms of asking me what it would take to convince me because I didn’t want to potentially get into some kind of argument or her trying to convince me despite saying no.

The other day, I mentioned to my mom of how it’s supposed to be warm today (Saturday) and she reminded me that she and dad wouldn’t be here because of the beer fest. She didn’t try to guilt trip or force me to go; just reminded me that they wouldn’t be here Saturday and idk how long Sunday.

I got to spend today doing what I wanted to do and also spend time with my pupper. It’s currently 2am as I type this and I’m laying in my own bed with my pup laying next to me. I’m not sure if everyone who went all slept at my sister’s house afterwards or if my aunt, uncle, and their friends went to a hotel or something. I may ask tomorrow when my parents get home.

Thank you all for taking the time to comment on my original post and it helped me to feel less like I’m an asshole and that I’m not overreacting (I’m always told I’m too sensitive so it’s hard to tell if I really am being too sensitive or if my feelings are valid) so I thank you all and hopefully my sister won’t try holding this against me later lol. Anyway, thanks!

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