TLDR: Few weeks ago my mom wanted to invite my ex to the wedding whom i had cheated on years ago, she disrespected my fiance, so i had uninvited her and my father had also refused to come
So yesterday i got married.
It was the happiest day of my life
but yeah it sucked not having my parents there whom i thought wouldnt go this much against me.
they didnt even come to the reception too
it honestly cried after the reception but my fiance was understanding and comforted me, i couldnt have asked for a better half than her.
my ex had sent a message of congratulations after wedding which i replied with thanks.
after wedding i still havent contacted my parents but father had sent an air frier as a wedding gift to my address which is like, an appliance so gonna use it.
reception was awesome too, thanks to yall for those wonderful comments supporting and suggesting me.
i honestly thought i dont deserve all this due to how terrible i was in the past
but people can change, if you have done something wrong in past, dont let it define yourself, keep it in your mind and move on, you can change
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WTF is this incoherent rambling garbage. Aren’t supposed to have a question about what makes you the asshole?
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Congratulations on your nuptials OP! Though it was sad not having your parents there I’m glad it was overall a good event. You may want to consider going to therapy to deal with your feelings of abandonment from your parents, especially your mother. I get she’s fond of your ex and upset with your past actions but your longing for a relationship with her, a relationship that she at this point doesn’t want, will only lead to emotional turmoil on your end. I’d hate for those feelings to bleed into your marriage.
And for those confused about why this post is here, check OP’s post history.
Updateme
Good for you. Growth is uncomfortable and messy, but you pushed through it. You held firm on boundaries, owned your past, and chose love built on mutual respect. That’s real redemption. And hey, enjoy that air fryer—it’s petty peace in appliance form.
I appreciate the update. Enjoy being newly wed, the rest can be dealt with later.
Return the air fryer don’t respond don’t do anything but don’t open it or use tin
i will say, glad you had a great wedding and reception. if inviting the ex was a point of contention, why respond to her text? why isn’t she blocked??