My first post is on my page, I am not sure how to attach it here.
Thank you to everyone who wrote in with advice. There were so many comments telling me to leave and to listen to the commenters… so I did. I had to tell my husband that I wanted to “vacation” with my family out of state in order to leave otherwise I would’ve not been able to. I know that a divorce is the only option now. My husband is controlling and I can no longer be in this relationship with someone who manipulates me, who is untrustworthy and someone who puts me dead last. Since my last post my phone service has been cut off and I have been removed from out debit/credit cards. Unfortunately because he has cut me off and I am a SAHM, I have no money, no vehicle, no nothing. Anything that I need for my son diapers, wipes, etc. I can no longer buy for him and my parents have helped me out with that. I need a divorce, if there is anyone out there that is reading this and knows of attorneys or lawyers that could do non-profit work in Southern California please please reply. I was married in that area and I can only file there. If I stay married to this man I will have no control over mine or my son’s future.
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I used to live in Ventura County. The county courthouse website had links to self-help filing information. They held free “classes” for how to file pro se (which means you are representing yourself). So let your fingers do the walking through the internet for your county court’s website and see what information/free classes they offer. As someone that had to take out a loan to afford a lawyer to protect my child, if your parent’s can do that, ask them to please help you afford a lawyer to protect your child/children. Good luck, and I’m sorry you are having to go through this.