UPDATE: I talked to my boyfriend about it…

So I finally talked to my boyfriend. Whole story – https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1lqnend/my_boyfriends_sister_told_me_she_has_feelings_for/

I was super nervous, but I just couldn’t keep it bottled up any longer. I told him what his sister said and how weird I’d been feeling since.

His reaction? Honestly… kinda surprising.

He stayed calm and said something like, “Yeah, she might just be messing around or testing you.” He didn’t seem shocked at all, more like he was trying to figure out if this was serious or just her being… her.

Then he went and talked to her. Calmly. And later, the three of us sat down together (my heart was pounding the entire time).

And… they both just laughed. A lot. Apparently, she was just testing me. Like… as some kind of weird joke or whatever. 🙃

I wasn’t exactly amused. I got kinda mad. Told them both that this was really not cool. I mean, who does that??

She apologized, and to be fair, she said some really sweet things about me. Said she thinks I’m great for her brother, that she respects our relationship, and that no she absolutely doesn’t have feelings for me. She said she has a boyfriend and she’s not even into women like that.

I told them both, straight up, not to ever pull something like that again. Like… ever.

So yeah. Weird week. Still processing.

Thanks for all the advice, seriously.