[UPDATE] I want my fiance to decline his friend’s wedding invitation…

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My fiance is a groomsmen in his friend’s wedding this August The groom is also a groomsmen in our wedding in October. I wasn’t invited to the wedding and neither was one other significant other of the bridal party. We were the only plus ones not invited. We will still invite both people of this couple to our wedding despite me being hurt and feeling disrespected.

The update: The groom texted my fiance and said he’s sorry for excluding me but hopes my fiance understands because of the reception venue’s space restrictions. He then said I can come to the wedding ceremony at their church, but still not to the reception.

Should I go to the wedding ceremony? I don’t really want to because f*ck them for not wanting me there initially, fully excluding me, and only now inviting me to one part of the wedding celebrations. This feels weird. I don’t know…what would you do?