Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend’s cousin to her place and my heart is sinking

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Thank you so much for the reassuring comments in the first post. I dozed off after the first few comments while waiting for him to reach his place and let me know. I woke up to a lot of reassuring comments, and the main thing everyone stressed was trust, and I do fully trust him, so that made me feel better.

I just wanted to talk to him about how the walk went just for myself, and so I could give an update here too. He wasn’t able to answer my calls in the morning, and ngl despite all the positive comments I’d just read and the lessons about trust I was again about to start to get worried (honestly a comment had said this might be a me problem and maybe they’re right lol).He just woke up half an hour ago because he’d gone to sleep late since he’d had coffee when dropping her at her place, so he couldn’t sleep until late, and figured I’d gotten knocked out (true lol) so he didn’t call me either in the night, just texted me. He has to go to meet some friends for brunch so we couldn’t talk for too long, I just asked him how the walk was and he said it was uneventful but he was glad he did because it was quite late. When I meet him tonight I will let him know that it was really sweet that he walked her to her place (a lot of the comments said how great it was of her to do that and it made me a bit proud too). Thank you for helping me out when I was spiraling last night and I do promise to work on myself too.

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  1. Nightwish1976 Avatar

    Well, it’s good that you trust him. Hopefully he’s worthy of your trust.