I posted 3 days ago that my friend didn’t pass her university entrance exam.
I was so scared she might hurt herself cuz she was rlly struggling.
She had this unhealthy obsession with perfection and a deep fear of failure.
I tried to be there for her as much as I could…
But last night, she took her own life.
I’m still in shock.
I can’t understand how she gave up her whole life over one exam.
She refused to retake it, she felt like she had wasted a whole important year and thought of herself as a failure.
But she wasn’t , She really wasn’t.
She was only 18, So smart, so pretty,
Everyone loved her,
She was good at everything, She was kind, understanding, the kind of person you don’t meet every day, she was so hard on herself.
I miss her so much.
Rest in peace, angel. 🙏🏻
update , my friend died ..
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I am so sorry for your loss. She just could not get past the exam. Some people are like this and can’t deal with the fact that she didn’t pass the exam. It’s short sighted but she was unable to grasp this.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s heartbreaking how much pressure and pain she must have been carrying. Remember, you did your best to support her, and it’s okay to grieve and seek help for yourself too. Sending you strength and love during this incredibly difficult time. 🙏❤️
May her soul find peace among the river of stars. A moment of silence I offer
I’m so very sorry