Bit over a week ago I posted here which helped me process some surprising feelings I had toward my friend (now boyfriend) when he showed me pics of him dressed in women’s clothing. Lots of requests (and a few demands) for updates so I’ll give one.
I’ve been over at his place almost every night since I made the post. We quickly realized that while it was probably rushing things a bit we wanted more than a FWB situation. So now we’re dating. We’ve gone out on two dates already and had dinner with my family to let everybody know last night. He’s been over at my parents’ house dozens of times over the years, but he was nervous as hell because he’d always just been there as a friend. It was really cute watching him fidget while I finished getting ready.
Mom, Dad, and my sister were supportive as I knew they would be. My mom has been very open about him being her favorite of my friends so having an excuse to have him around more is a bonus. Dad made a few cracks about not having to worry about another pregnancy scare (I was very reckless in high school and one late period from my girlfriend at the time turned into a story I’ll never get to live down.) My sister was acting smug claiming she always knew we’d end up dating which is just dumb. She had no clue. Hell I had no idea. My sister’s an idiot.
Our mutual friends were all very supportive. He said he’d had a thing for me for awhile now and he’d confided in a few of them. This made me realize a lot of conversations the last few months with my boyfriend and other friends had focused quite a bit on hypotheticals about what kind of guys I’d be into “if I were gay.” So yeah they were testing the waters and liked my responses so here we are I guess.
Sadly starting tomorrow into next week we are both swamped with work so we won’t be seeing each other for a bit. I can already feel the cute boyfriend withdrawals. It’s like I’m quitting smoking all over again. On the plus side he said he found a few more outfits he wants to show me so that will be fun once we’re both free.
Anyway that’s everything. My fragile heterosexuality was shattered by a cute guy’s butt in a skirt so now even when he’s dressed in his jeans and a t shirt he’s hot as hell. The dam broke. I have caught “the gay” and I don’t think I can escape it.
To the people who are accusing me of making this up I guess I’m sorry you think this isn’t real? Downvote and tell me I suck if that will help. This post is for the supportive people who I had fun talking to last time when I was working through things. If you get some enjoyment from tearing me down then I’m glad I could help you too.
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good for you
Yeah I’m not buying it, this and the previous post, both are trolls.
Aww, my eyes flashed when I saw you had an update!! The families reaction is so cute, and that’s classic sibling behavior hahaha.
AND AWW, your mutual friends were involved too?! This is awesome, you had everyone rooting for you (reddit included). Your condition though may be terminal though, so enjoy every moment together.
Yay!! I was really excited about your update on bi_irl, this is even better! Good luck to you both, so cute
This is prime material for a really cute romance novel. Also, you didn’t catch the gay, it just activated with the right catalyst. The catalyst being a boy with a nice butt, which is totally understandable.
A cute story with a happy ending. Love it. Rom com material.
Yea… I ain’t buying this.
If true, you were never really heterosexual then. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
You were always either bi or gay but didn’t know it yet.
Updateme
Well, greek ideals of relationships would still describe you as a ‘heterosexual’ as long as remain dominant and make love to him from the top.
So yeah, take him down and hard and in greek minds eye you’re the same as before lol
(congrats on coining a femboy though)
“my sister’s an idiot” is my favorite part hahahaha sibling love