So after reading the very harsh comments, I thought about everything and realized that I was in the wrong. I told my kids they couldn’t go on the vacation and of course they were upset.
My husband hated seeing the kids upset so he rented an RV the week my other son’s go on vacation. The kids complained that it wasn’t a fun vacation and that they want to go with Joe.
My husband locked himself in the room and I yelled at the kids for being ungrateful but I know I aided in that. I found my husband crying so I tried to comfort him.
He seemed okay until I had other news to tell him.
In the comments people told me I needed a job and some said scholarships for the CNA program I started. I couldn’t find a scholarship but, if you get government assistance they would pay for transportation and the program.
I start in October and it’s a one month program but I have classes Monday through Thursday. My husband was mad, he screamed at me saying I keep making him look bad. ever since I told him, he’s been ignoring me.
i feel like I’m ruining my marriage
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Wow your post is all over the place and its hard to follow.
Tim is too controlling and insecure. You are honestly better off without him.
Your husband is controlling. He’s so controlling that he couldn’t even allow his kids to have something good because he wasn’t controlling it.
So, you told your kids that you have with current husband (not the kids you had with ex) they couldn’t go?
It’s sucks for your current husband. He can’t match up with your ex. I feel for him in regards to that, however, being whiny like this isn’t the answer. He needs to man up. You working isn’t bad, he needs to man up.
You need to get your shit together. Becoming a CNA will certainly help, but you also need therapy, and you need to get your head on straight. Stay single for a while until you’re in a place where you’re in a position to have a healthy relationship.
Congrats on the great job getting your kids to hate you because you prioritize your crybaby husband over them.
That’s not going to blow up in your face at all.
So you made yet another decision without speaking to your husband?
YTA for staying married. your husband is ruining your marriage and I dont know why you are so blind to that.
Your husband is abusive & controlling. That’s why he cares so much about “how you make him look” optics are everything to a narcissist!!!
Next update, she meets someone in class and starts an affair with that guy and is now pregnant with his kid.
Updateme
Updateme
Your ruining your life by staying with that man