wanting advice on my relationship

wondering what to do*(repost, still new to this)

boyfriend called me a b and accused me of “doing it” with someone else cuz i was tired and now idk if i want a relationship.

First time, apologizes if it’s a lot or confusing. i’m 21F my boyfriend is 26M. as the title says, my boyfriend called me a b, accused me of “doing it” someone else all cuz i was tired.

a little context: we’ve been talking for a year, dating officially maybe 7/8 months. met at our job, had a few convos . started texting. hung out one time and couldn’t stop seeing each other, literally. we just meshed together real bad. we can do anything and everything together, i love this man bad but anyways. so we always seem to get along but tend to have slight misunderstandings or disagreements that get blown up due to each others emotions. over the course of our relationship, we both have had our fair share of mess-ups however, majority of mine were at the beginning of our talking stage and before our big “no/no” conversations, his are on-going and after just for context.

so this past weekend we partied hard, stayed out all night ( which i don’t do. i work A shift he works B/C shift for context ) so i’ve been tired this week. i also work 6 days on 1 off, 5 days on next week so im not the happiest, however i try to still show affection and be lovey dove with my partner. i feel like he takes personal offense to things i do when i constantly tell him it’s not his fault and it’s not him it’s just i’m tired or whatever the case is. this week i haven’t been eating and sleeping right . i work 12’s 6-6 and barely have time to do anything when i get home besides shower eat and sleep. we live together also but again, different shifts so we’re normally otp . it wasn’t like this at first but life happens, anyways. this particular day we were otp while i was at work but he was out running errands . he’s been trying to make me smile all day and make me feel better because he was worried about me but i’ve just been short with him and haven’t been talking much . we fell asleep the night before otp together and somehow in the middle of the night, i lost my voice, that’s why i’ve been silent . i told my boyfriend all of this. he decided he wanted to surprise me at work , but when he showed up i was too busy to talk to him. my boyfriend took this personal and left, and when i called him a few minutes later to see what was going on, he told me he left and texted me that i was not happy to see him and accused me of sleeping with someone else cuz ive been short with him for no reason . told me to come talk to him when im done being such a b. now i know how that sounds , but it’s been days and now i don’t even know if i want to still be with him . its so many more pros than cons in our relationship the disrespect is so loud.

TL;DR: boyfriend asks me to respect him and think about what i say bf i talk to him, yet can’t do the same for me. disrespects me and accuses me of doing things bc i am being short w/ him if im tired, not in the mood, etc. wondering what to do, if this can be worked on/is this normal.