This is mostly just a vent… but I’m lamenting the idea that as women sexual attention might be easy to get if we choose to do certain things… but it sucks that it so rarely comes with feelings of safety.
I feel like it really punishes our sexual expression from fear.
Maybe someone would like to dress more daring, but grew up hearing ‘ya but did you see what she was wearing’ about SA cases.
Maybe it’s wanting to find out more about kinks… but you can’t join something like fetlife without some serious negative attention in between the learning.
It just sucks. Even porn is mostly women who don’t really want to be there so that’s disheartening too.
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Women will still get attention and preyed on even if they attempt to sabotage their approachability and or desirability. It’s not your fault for wearing or doing anything because nothing can deter these people.