Was there a time when a girl unintentionally hurt your feelings?

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For it was when I was 25 and down in the dumps so I decided to do adderall and edibles for the first time. Bad idea as I have OCD and the addies gave me this mad desire to start grinding my teeth. I was sitting near a coffee shop and vaping when all of a sudden this teenage blonde girl came up to me and goes like “WOW there’s just no way anyone can get that lit”. She immediately pulls out her phone and started recording me and I just wasn’t having it but before I could say anything she exciting yells a big YES (like she just won the lottery) and started posting it on social media. I just ignored her and back to dapping 🙄

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  2. schlongtheta Avatar

    I feel like this is bait, designed to get men to bash women.

    A “girl”? I dunno OP, maybe when I, a man who is now well over 30, was in my school days, some girl I fancied said something to me that hurt my feelings without realizing she was doing so. Because we were all teenagers going through hormonal changes at the time.

    Or maybe you are asking if the grown men in this subreddit, many of whom who have daughters, have ever had their daughters say something that unintentionally hurt their feelings. (Which I’m sure is a much more interesting prompt.) Maybe that innocent comment from their own child forced the man to reconsider his life or his actions in certain situations.

  3. ObsidianMorals Avatar

    My 8 year old niece count? She saw me feeling low once and asked if I was okay. Told her I’m just feeling old, she said I’ve been old ever since she was born and I’m not even 30 yet.

  4. uniquely-normal Avatar

    Well, I love edibles and coffee for breakfast. Follow that up with a bike ride/hike and that’s a nice little morning. But grinding your teeth and acting like a heathen in public leaves you open to the treatment you received (if this is even a real story). If you go out and do drugs in public and act like a addict then getting treated like a sideshow attraction is in the cards for you.

  5. Ill-Ninja-8344 Avatar

    If a female does it unintentionaly, it is only because she do not value you enough to bother to know you.
    If it is intentionaly, she do not value you enough to bother.

  6. HerezahTip Avatar

    What a strange anecdote to hold on to and post.

  7. honaku Avatar

    Yes, I had a huge eyecandy on this girl at my internship. Never really had a chance to get to know her, until my team went out on my last day and invited her along.

    After a few drinks she was like “hold out your hands” and she measured the length of my middle finger and said “it’s too short” and ya she got a bf after a few week.

  8. DrVoltage1 Avatar

    Sounds like she was intentionally hurting your feelings…if this is even true. Also why hang out at a coffee shop all fucked up like that? You’re just askin for negative attention. I’m all for getting lit but don’t expect to be treated well when you look like you need a baby sitter.