I’m actually kind of nervous?? Like he’s legitimately showing early signs of obsession and not in a cute way at all. I’m sleepy A F so here’s the signs in a bullet list:
-Like we just met and hung out one time and apparently he hasn’t felt that kind of happiness in a really long time. He just had a bad day and I sometimes just need space and had received bad news and didn’t feel like talking to anyone and really just wanted some alone time today and had told him this super early on in the AM before his day even started. Well I end up texting back later on in the day and he calls to see if I want to hangout and I gave him the same answer as earlier— I just wanted to be alone. So then he says oh well then I guess I will just go out and drink. I said okay? So he goes out and does that, ends up calling me some hours later saying he’s buzzed then says he’s drunk and that there was something wrong with the brake on his truck (he just fixed this btw) and asked if he could just come over… I said he needed to take it to his house where he needs to work on it at. I didn’t feel like being around anyone and he knew this and then basically tried to make me feel guilty about telling him no to coming over by saying “fine I’d rather let my truck go in a ditch then go to your place at this point.” I’m like??? Why take it to my place when you can take it to yours and if it’s not safe to drive then ask for a ride to your house?? I’m not cold hearted like if something were actually wrong he would’ve asked me to give a ride but no.
-I was home alone cleaning my house and he called and I answered and we stayed on the phone for a few hours. He tried to FaceTime me but I looked like boo boo lol so I didn’t put on the camera. An hour later he admits “I’m ngl my first assumption to you not answering that ft was there was a guy there.” Bruh. We had been on the phone for over an hour already before he tried to FT me.
-He’s already talking about me to his mom. He’s really wanting to meet mine. It’s WAY too early!! We just met!!
-Literally the morning after hanging out he started telling people I was his GIRL.
-He’s always talking about “protecting” me. I respect any man who protects women but this is different.
-He’s already talked about future plans
UGHH there’s more but this doesn’t seem normal AT. ALL. I need advice like am I just being paranoid or what? It’s such a weird feeling and I wish I wasn’t so sleepy right now or I could break it down better but yeah. It’s been 1 week 😭.
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Run just run
You got involved with a guy who doesn’t have any other options so he wants to move on quickly.
Get out of there and block everything.
ONE WEEK! Girl… No, u run