Met this girl and we decided to meet at the lake to go for a walk…. Got there and she pulled up with her 9 year old daughter, didn’t tell me she was bringing her or anything.. the whole walk was her taking to her daughter telling her to get out the way, move over here, pay attention…. We probably said 5 words to each other the entire 1hr walk…. Needless to say, I think that’s the last time we will ever see each other
We walked the lake…
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what advice do you want?
Sounds like it worked for both sides. You weren’t expecting the daughter to show up and don’t plan on seeing the girl again. The girl may think that her daughter comes with her first, no matter what relationship, so that’s her priority too.
I think you learned a lot. If she has to give a 9 year old that much guidance there seems to be other issues going on. Not mentioning she’s planning on bringing the kid is descriptive. Look at it as you got some exercise and saved yourself time in the long run.
I suppose she will say she can’t find a mate because she’s a single mom.