About 5 years ago, my husband started to get TOO close to a woman in our running club. She friended him on social media then they were messaging a lot. I saw it all happening and called him on it, only to have him tell me it was nothing and they were just friends. (BS). Finally I happened to be using his printer and he was out. His computer was on and his messenger was on an open tab. Of course I looked at it. It confirmed everything. Not only that they were messaging all the time but they had met up once and had kissed. Then he seemed to not be responding to her the same way anymore and often waited a long time before responding at all. She kept trying to get him to go to her place or meet up with her. She was putting me down and criticizing our marriage. He wasn’t responding to those messages.
I confronted him and he admitted it all. He said it went too far and he wanted to work on our marriage. Of course I was angry and hurt and I know he was wrong for what he did- he is absolutely not innocent. We agreed to give it a real try for 2 months and then re-evaluate. I also insisted that he block her on everything. He did.
She then started emailing him at home and at work. She texted him. She called him. He did not respond to any of it and told me about it.
At the two month mark we were better than ever and she was still doing it.
I arranged for a glitter bomb of penis shaped glitter to be delivered to her. At work.
She must have figured out it was me (eventually) because she finally stopped. Last I heard she was fired from a job because she had an affair with one of the owners. (And the best revenge is that my husband and I have been married for 10 years now and are still doing very well).
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TIL that there’s penis shaped glitter lol
If he cheats once, he’ll do it again and again.
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It’s bad enough that a cheater will cheat, but one of the most infuriating things they do is deny your reality. “Hey, I see you are getting very chatty and cozy with this other person and it seems to be crossing a line.” “OMG, why are you so JEALOUS? Can’t I have hobbies? Can’t I have female friends? You’re so crazy and controlling.” It’s only when they’re caught with incontrovertible proof that they admit it. “Ooooops. My bad! You were right the whole time.”
Dude straight up lied to your face and made you question your reality, but congratulations on making it “work”. I couldn’t do it. Id never forget what he’d done and wind up the marriage police. Is he faithful or had he just gotten sneakier? Is that woman looking at him a little too long? Does he have a burner phone? Is he really working late or going to the gym? Does he have an email I don’t know about? is he chatting on LinkedIn? If he isn’t grateful to have me and only me, he can move along. I’d rather have my solitude than try to keep a cheater from cheating.
So you sent her a glitter bomb but your husband who, let’s be clear here, is the only one in this situation that betrayed you, gets off Scott free. Cool bruh.
When Howard Stern was unhappily married to his first wife, he and his cohorts went to Scores strip club all the time. They had to tell the strippers not to wear glitter because it got all over the men and their clothes. Glitter doesn’t go away.
Clap and clap for her.
NGL That was a dick move. ….
I’ll show myself out.
Whats her number asking for a friend.
So wait, your husband cheats on you, not only does he get away with it, but he gets you to attack the woman who owes you nothing…