Hi, I honestly would like to know what advice you would give a 31 year old regarding those topics. I also would like to know if you have had kids and regretted it, but also did you get married and regretted it or stayed single and regretted it. Is marriage really worth it?
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I turned 31 this past week and I’m glad you asked this! I recently got into a relationship with someone new. He wants all the things I want and we get along so well. I’m starting to think he could be my guy. It’s scary and exciting but time will tell. I’m trying my best to not rush but because of my age babies are definitely on the brain.
don’t date jerks
When you see any red flags, just stop. Red flag people do not change and it doesn’t get better or easier. Don’t fall for the “sunk cost” fallacy. So what if you have 10 months or 10 years into a crummy relationship? That time is gone no matter what, and it’s best to just move along.
think long and hard about having a child. If it really isn;t you, just don’t do it. 68f here, on my second marriage, have one daughter now 40 and I’m glad I had a child.