My dad tells me to stay upstairs and clean the house until they come back, I’ve been at work all day, I wanna rest. I’m fine with cleaning but he also told me I have to stay upstairs even when im done cleaning cause he doesn’t want my brother playing video games… then he proceeded to tell me all I do is work eat and sleep, I pay rent to them cause obviously I live in they’re home. I’m 23 im saving up to move out and when I do tell them oh maybe I should move out they tell me no don’t leave your fine here, im not gonna lie on my days off, I wake up late and do some cleaning, but once 5 pm hits I usually spend time with my boyfriend who is across they world and I’ll be in call with him for like 4 hrs sometimes so I won’t go upstairs, that’s only during Friday and Saturday if we both aren’t busy, am I being an asshole to my parents? I don’t mind cleaning if they ask of it? I’m just confused..
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