Guys, when a girl is on top, do you really care what we’re doing? Like, are we expected to consider what it’s feeling like for you? Or are yall just enjoying watching us do what feels good for us?
Guys, when a girl is on top, do you really care what we’re doing? Like, are we expected to consider what it’s feeling like for you? Or are yall just enjoying watching us do what feels good for us?
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Both. Depends on the situation.
You’re supposed to do what feels good for you, grinding, bouncing etc.
If you’re on top as a treat for him, focus on his pleasure. If you’re on top as a treat for you, focus on your pleasure. Both are nice and have a place in a good sex life!
Yeah babe, put it where you want it and enjoy yourself ❤️
Both
They’re usually one in the same.
It all feels good for us, unless you bend it too far
Do not be afraid to communicate with your partner and figure out what you both want. As others have commented, there is not really a wrong answer here. It just depends on what you and your partner want. Explore and enjoy yourselves
Yes ofc we care.
Depends on the scenario. Are you making love or are you fucking?
Personally, I take in views and angles.
Touch and tease areas of her body.
I prefer it when my Mrs does exactly what feels good to her, grinding, riding or bouncing but if the aim is me finishing, she’ll ride and grind in the ways I like it. We know as we’ve communicated throughout our relationship together.
Vary it up and communicate. Say what feels good to each other.
Don’t be afraid to change it up and move positions if it’s not quite working or hitting the spot.
Communication is the biggest tool you have.
Twerk on it!
For me, on antidepressants, I can have a hard time finishing at all so you do what you need to. I actually really find the female orgasm to be the hottest part of sex, so as long as you’re doing well I couldn’t care less if I get off. As someone who started having sex before everyone got their ideas from porn; I would just say that porn is not good sex and you should learn by listening to each other’s bodies not watching some gonzo shit. Two girlfriends ago, she was 29 and I 37, she seemed to have no idea that sex and porn are totally separate and I’ll tell you it was the worst sex of my life. Just move the way that’s best suiting both of you. Think back and forth, a grind, no hopping up and down crushing his pelvis.
The main reason my wife likes to be on top is because she controls her pace and pleasure. You move on his shaft whichever way you want to receive the most pleasure, be a little selfish. Don’t worry about him, he gets plenty of stimulation and enjoyment.
Doesn’t matter as long as it feels good to you. No chainsaws please.
Every guy is different… ask your partner
I’m all about that lady grind on top. I know it feels good from that angle for her. But it’s good to bop up and down every once in a while to keep ol’ faithful firm. Sometimes, the grindy sensations can numb things a bit.