What are men’s favorite romantic movies?

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It seems like I always see romantic movies that cater to a females fantasies, or perspective and I like to know what romantic movies catered to male fantasies or perspectives.

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  2. OkPsychology11 Avatar

    Mid-20’s, Forgetting Sarah Marshall or Palm Springs are fun. Favorite anti-romance movie is Blue Valentine

  3. SewerSlidalThot Avatar

    Backdoor Sluts 9

  4. Guachole Avatar

    Miracle Mile

    >Musician Harry Washello (Anthony Edwards) sits down at a Los Angeles diner, where he instantly takes an interest in waitress Julie Peters (Mare Winningham). The feeling is mutual, too, so the pair arranges a date for later that day. But things go awry when Harry picks up a random pay phone call from a frantic soldier who warns of a nuclear attack that will hit L.A. within the hour. Scrambling, Harry finds Julie and the two do everything they can to escape to safety.

    The entire movie is like an insane LSD fever dream, but at its core its a love story. Regular rom coms and drama stuff is too boring for me

  5. gumpythegreat Avatar

    My favorite Romantic movie that appeals to male fantasies is Gladiator

  6. Realistic-Safety-565 Avatar

    Terminator.

    Before you ask, Terminator 2 is my favourite fatherhood movie.

  7. Shoddy_Incident5352 Avatar

    Chunking Express, Titanic

  8. MashAndPie Avatar

    Notting Hill, Palm Springs, Before Sunrise (and sequels) are the three that spring to mind.

  9. CleanYourRecoater Avatar

    Stranger than Fiction has always been my favorite

  10. DrSpacemanSpliff Avatar

    Terminator has the greatest love story ever told. Reese fell in love with Sarah long after her death. Time itself was a barrier between them. He learned about her through John, and had a picture that he cherished. He came across time for her.

    That picture he had, he was always wondering what she was thinking about in the picture. It turns out she was thinking about him, somehow. Specifically, as the picture was taken, she was thinking the words “In the short time we had together, we loved a lifetime’s worth”.

    So that picture that he held onto for so long, and fell in love with was a picture of someone who loved him back.

    And she raised their son with his father’s strength. Who took that strength and gave it right back to Reese.

  11. ChatPDJ Avatar

    Princess Bride

  12. hipnotron Avatar

    Groundhog Day

  13. JPSteele8 Avatar

    Andy Samberg’s character in Palm Springs

  14. codeegan Avatar

    Romantic movies??? I am the guy who hates the war movies with the stupid romantic sub plots in them!

  15. Treefingers_14 Avatar

    You’ve Got Mail

  16. carneylansford Avatar

    True Romance. Great for history buffs too.

  17. CharacterBuyer4593 Avatar

    Star Wars revenge of the sith or I give it a year

  18. RikiWataru Avatar

    I think many men tend to notice that romance movies seem to always include cheating. It’s actually hard to think of any romance movie that didn’t involve cheating.

    Which i think is one of the reasons men don’t often favor romance movies, even subconsciously.

    It’s kind of weird to consider how many movies for decades now have perhaps created a subconscious or conscious fantasy that women will be able to cheat on their boring relationship to have a happy ending with the right dude after 2 hours of Hollywood hyjinks. Once you see it, it’s hard to unsee it.

  19. hujambo11 Avatar

    Action movies where the woman falls in love with the hero.

  20. DeuceOfDiamonds Avatar

    It’s called “porn,” and it’s gonna change the world!

  21. No_Salad_68 Avatar
  22. king_rootin_tootin Avatar

    “The Crow,” (1994) and “Ghost” 1990

    Both actually about people in love who truly care for one another, not some “he swept me off my feet after knowing him for just one day!” crap.

  23. Iwishididntexist69 Avatar

    The Girl Next Door (not a porno)

  24. GenerousWineMerchant Avatar

    I actually liked La La Land. And Casablanca. And maybe Some Like It Hot. But that’s about it.

    I could argue that Tin Cup is a romance movie and that I liked it.

  25. Darth1Football Avatar

    Castaway – the original with Kurt Russell & Goldie Hawn

  26. AllIWantisAdy Avatar

    The number one for me will forever be “Some Kind of Wonderful”. Then other top ones are “You’ve Got Mail” and “10 Things I Hate About You”.

  27. Universal_Perimeter Avatar

    Not a movie but I love Jane Austen’s books. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte is a banger too though not entirely a romance.

    The 1995 tv series for Pride and prejudice is a nice adaptation

  28. obtusetriangles Avatar

    50 First Dates? Adam Sandler movies I would assume.

  29. InsuranceStreet358 Avatar

    Can i say a silent voice?

  30. Disgruntled_Oldguy Avatar

    Once; 50  First Dates

  31. hatred-shapped Avatar

    Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. They had their memories of each other erased and still found each other. 

  32. failed_install Avatar

    “The Accidental Tourist”.

  33. Opie67 Avatar

    Kung Fu Hustle. That ending always gets me for some reason

  34. Scasne Avatar

    Shoot em up.

  35. JayFlown Avatar

    I mean, there are “manly” movies that aren’t in the romance genre but many women will watch them and not really incorrectly find themselves announcing “Hmm, this was actually kinda just a love story.” Like the original ROCKY movie. Aside from one iffy moment where you have to hunker down during a cringey moment as the male sort of powers through her shyness, it’s ridiculously sweet and cute. The movie is oddly a quiet, thoughtful character piece. The sequels went wild but the first one was very smart and the love story was very sweet (but also had some very real, kinda dark moments dealing with her family drama).

    There are movies that have a main plot aside from the romance connection where the romance is perhaps my favorite part. Like the Will Ferrell movie STRANGER THAN FICTION. Ferrell is an IRS auditor who suddenly starts hearing a voice narrating his life like it’s a novel. That’s the main story. And the relationship he starts during the film is just very cute as a subplot.

    Another movie where I love the romance is the Josh Hartnett movie LUCKY NUMBER SLEVIN. It’s a crime story involving mistaken identity where two different gangs approach a guy believing him to be a different man who owes them money because he made big bets and hasn’t paid what he owes. There’s action and violence and very stylized slick dialogue that feels like it belongs in an old-timey crime novel. It’s very much not a movie in the romance genre. And yet the romance is one of my favorites in film. Such a cute romance between the guy and the woman who lives across the hall. Their banter is amazing. Some of my favorite romance banter I’ve ever seen in a movie not written by Nora Ephron. She’s funny and cool. She’s a nurse or a coroner or something. But she’s bored enough with normal life to find his predicament super fascinating. So she’s just down to help him solve the mystery of why these two crime organizations are both after him all of a sudden. She literally goes on little missions with him as he tries to solve the problem. She gets to take part in the fun a little bit, which is nice compared to all the movies out there where the woman is just a wet blanket obstacle to all the fun shenanigans the man wants to go take part in during the show/movie.

  36. Humanoidfreak Avatar

    Natural born killers… it is a love story. But with murder along the way.

  37. ow3ntrillson Avatar

    Bridesmaids (2011), Wedding Crashers (2005), Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind (2004)

  38. used2B3chordguitar Avatar

    The documentary titled “Armageddon” starring Harry Stamper. Harry ultimately sacrificed himself for the greater good and to make sure his daughter Grace could make a life with A.J.

  39. Jolly-Garbage1465 Avatar

    My husband favorite all time movie is Dirty Dancing. He has a thing for Patrick Swayze (no, he’s not gay lol)

  40. TsaboAssassin Avatar

    My favorite is probably 10 Things I Hate About You 🤔

  41. Hugh_Biquitous Avatar

    I love While You Were Sleeping. Sandra Bullock plays Lucy as just a hilariously awkward, fun, lovable character. And Bill Pullman is also awesome opposite her. And his whole family is so funny! The dinner table conversation always gets me. Also, “You’re disrupting the Mass!” “Who made you the Pope?”

  42. vingtsun_guy Avatar

    I actually enjoy Hope Floats, with Sandra Bullock and Harry Connick Jr.

    And of course, Bernice Matisse.

  43. bc-001 Avatar

    The only romantic film I’ve ever seen and liked was Notting Hill. Very well written. Well acted. Secondary characters were not one dimensional.

  44. Like_A_Circle_8881 Avatar

    Silver linings playbook, without a doubt

  45. Lamadian Avatar

    The Before Sunrise trilogy.

    Ethan Hawke and Jule Delpy are in all three and I won’t spoil them for those who haven’t seen, but it tracks them throughout their lives, from young 20s to mid 40s. Each film is set over a period of hours and they really struck a chord with me. I understood the characters more and more as I got older.

  46. OkayImDepressed_ Avatar

    A Silent Voice. It’s an anime movie but still worth the watch

  47. Cross_22 Avatar

    A Summer’s Tale. It feels very genuine and I find the different characters intriguing.

    https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0115940/

  48. Wazula23 Avatar

    Princess Bride

  49. DoubleDegreeDropout Avatar

    Conan the Barbarian

  50. marijuanam0nk Avatar

    A Lot like Love

  51. Omnivek Avatar

    Forgetting Sarah Marshall

  52. non_kosher_schmeckle Avatar

    You didn’t specify straight men lol

    But I loved Call Me By Your Name

  53. DILF_69 Avatar

    Serendipity