What are some hard relationship lessons you have learned about yourself?

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Ive had 3 real relationships in my adult life. Didnt really date in high school, so I wasn’t really prepared for what was to come.

I’ve realized I’m quick to settle on a person. If I like them I assume it will all work out. I get complacent quickly too

I’m not a talker. I developed a lot of communication skills through this last relationship though.

I may be a big man child. Not sure about this one. I’ll have to really process this one.

Mostly I’ve learned that I probably am better off by myself. I’ve had a good portion of my peace single. I find dating inconvenient and very stressful. It gives me anxiety.

Maybe someday I will stumble upon my peace.

Comments

  1. HonestMuscle49218 Avatar

    Do not fall in love with a woman, who leaves her previous boy friend because of you. When time comes she will do it you to.

  2. Cautious_Intern_1563 Avatar

    Letting go of your ego from time to time and admit that you’re wrong in some aspects when working out a problem together. Otherwise, you’ll just go in circles, and if it lasts too long, the relationship can become toxic.

  3. l0ve_m1llie_b0bb1e Avatar

    Cheaters will cheat nothing you can do to stop that. You have to love & respect yourself first before you can enter any relationship. People project their biggest insecurities onto you. Hate = selfhate. Leave after the first red flag.