One time I was at the movies with some friends and one of them went to the bathroom, got out, made a beeline towards my sweet corn and grabbed a handful of it with his bare hands. I couldn’t eat it after that. So yeah, someone else handling my food is a big NO
At large meetings when you’re sitting at the back and they make you come fill in the front seats knowing full well there’s enough people attending to fill those seats if they just gave it 5 fricking minutes.
Got hit as a cyclist by a motorbike that ran a red light last week. He stopped and i got plenty of help after, but the unfairness of me having green and getting fekked over still feels violating.
I work in food service. My pet peeves that make me feel icky are customers touching my arm or calling me by my name as if we are best friends. It’s different if it’s a regular customer who I see daily, but if we just met for the first time and you’ve addressed me by my name 5 times in one conversation… Idk I feel violated.
If I’m getting food, I will offer to get anyone else with me some food if they want it. I.E. my girlfriend, sibling, friend. They’ll say, “Nah, I’m fine.” Then try to pick at whatever I got. Nah motherfucker, I offered you your own portion, and you said no, so you don’t get any of mine. Now you have to go get your own.
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People standing too close to me.
One of mine is accidentally touching the wet door or wet wall of a public bathroom
People violating agreements to do things.
Happens all the time.
hugs or any type of touch/physical affection
Making eye-contact in a urinal
Close talkers.
Being forced into any situation that I made clear I didn’t want to be in!!
hahahah yes unnecesary proximity when talking to me
When my possessions are thrown away without my consent.
People in my personal space.
When people touch my hair without warning
Being Stalked fr
Being ignored mid-sentence feels like erasing me in real time.
Trump’s voice.
People looking through my trash or at my receipts
Someone picked up my journal one time and started flipping through it. I’ve never felt so violated.
One time I was at the movies with some friends and one of them went to the bathroom, got out, made a beeline towards my sweet corn and grabbed a handful of it with his bare hands. I couldn’t eat it after that. So yeah, someone else handling my food is a big NO
At large meetings when you’re sitting at the back and they make you come fill in the front seats knowing full well there’s enough people attending to fill those seats if they just gave it 5 fricking minutes.
Showing someone a photo on my phone and they try to keep scrolling.
Spiders in my house. Like come on, you have an entire outside, stay out of my bedroom lol
When the barman tells you the price of a round
When my 5yo son says “smell my finger”
Being on display. Opening Christmas presents, getting sung happy birthday, etc…
People who are in my personal space.
Rule #1. Done be in my personal space!
Revealing personal information
Being accused of something I didn’t do.
When you mention you’re trynna lose weight and then A loved one starts bringing home sweets
When people are losing their case in an argument and they bring in unrelated personal information to somehow validate their position.
Got hit as a cyclist by a motorbike that ran a red light last week. He stopped and i got plenty of help after, but the unfairness of me having green and getting fekked over still feels violating.
Someone talking over me.
I work in food service. My pet peeves that make me feel icky are customers touching my arm or calling me by my name as if we are best friends. It’s different if it’s a regular customer who I see daily, but if we just met for the first time and you’ve addressed me by my name 5 times in one conversation… Idk I feel violated.
Being robbed, of many things and including space.
Car honking at me
Had my diary read once by a “friend” without my knowledge. Seriously one of the worst breaches of privacy.
TL;DR JOEY DOESN’T SHARE FOOD!
If I’m getting food, I will offer to get anyone else with me some food if they want it. I.E. my girlfriend, sibling, friend. They’ll say, “Nah, I’m fine.” Then try to pick at whatever I got. Nah motherfucker, I offered you your own portion, and you said no, so you don’t get any of mine. Now you have to go get your own.
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When I’m standing in line and feel someone’s purse touch my back
Getting a gastroscopy.