What are some things you did with your girlfriend that brought you two closer? I.e. consistent time together, going on trips together, if she took care of you when you’re sick or vice versa, etc.
What are some things you did with your girlfriend that brought you two closer? I.e. consistent time together, going on trips together, if she took care of you when you’re sick or vice versa, etc.
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Drugs.
I felt she was there when I needed her, and she still encourages me. That’s why she’s my wife too.
Everything.
Good times bring you together, when you’re happy to share those moments.
Bad times bring you together as you work together to overcome something.
I had to pull out a butt plug that got stuck up her ass. It was the moment she realized she loved me.
Being there for each other in our dark moments, but also a threesome. I was shocked how close I felt to her after that.
When she offered help for the most simple inconvenience, where when I was in a hospital and dating my ex, she didn’t even bother to tell me anything more than “ok” when I told her “I’m in the hospital, I had an accident but I’m fine”
Someone pulled a gun on me and she refused to run away. Made me realise “oh shit, she’s serious about it”
It has been many moons since I’ve had a partner but yeah, time together, being consistent/reliable, communicating well, laughing together, doing chores together. All that jazz
Plan dates.
Time together, doing things together, and fun sex
Just 69ing a lot: she sucks my dick, I suck her dick.
We spend a lot of time together playing games, I cook for her almost every week on our days off, she was super embarrassed when I helped her pluck any weird hair growing places it shouldn’t and didn’t judge her for it. She really likes to spoil me, and I have never had that in any previous relationships.
I wana preface this with – this relationship was toxic and abusive, this is not a recommendation but rather a fun anecdote.
BUT the one thing she was cool with was that I am bisexual but haven’t had much experience with guys. A situation opened up where if she agreed a MMF threesome was on the table, she agreed and the experience was cool.
However, the weeks after that were probably the closest to us having a good relationship. It felt like we were on the same page, getting along better than ever and just had a strange sense of closeness after it.
Again, not a recommendation. It might be more telling that the ultimate bonding activity for us was having someone else there.